What's an international school?

When I heard Renee saying that her kids attend an international school it reminded me of a bygone era when cities like Tokyo, Paris or Buenos Aires had expat communities (diplomats etc) who did not want their children to attend the local schools.

What struck me more is that Renee said "bi-lingual international school". At that particular school they teach in english and french. You might want to argue the usefulness of learning french but it is nice to learn a second language.

If you have been to San Francisco you might also know that this is a very diverse city. Not only do you have a large asian community and a large hispanic community, but you also have groups of people from every known country in this world. That is nice!

Don't feel bad if you are a parent (lower or middle class, not upper class like Stephen) and you have to send your children to a public school. I know that San Francisco's public schools are much more diverse than the international school, despite the name. Go to any public school in San Francisco and you will hear many languages spoken. In fact, I bet you, if you your kids want to, they can pick up cantonese/mandarin or spanish in no time. Not just french. And that's a lot more useful.

In conclusion, most public schools in San Francisco are tri-lingual at the least. No need to spend money on a private bi-lingual school.



One of the readers found this Cheetos commercial and he predicts that Fowler references like this one will appear more often.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgoDcCQZzI

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  • 2/11/2009 10:19 AM jae957 wrote:
    What a small, pathetic "man"? Stephen Fowler is obviously trying to compensate for being such an inadequent human being. The man obviously has some self image issues, otherwise he wouldn't have to work so hard at trying to prove he's so much better than the rest of us. Please, go back to England Mr. Fowler. If it was so great there, why did you leave in the first place? Did they not appreciate your self proclaimed superiority either? And let's talk about those idiotic t shirts. I mean really couldn't you find one that said "I'm the most important person in the world"? Sorry to break this to you but no one cares. By the way I am a midwestener born and raised. I have 2 Masters degrees, have traveled extensively abroad (yep, even have a passport) and would gladly match your IQ point for point. Betcha didn't know we had higher learnin down here. That poor woman you ridiculed has more class as do most of us midwesteners that you could ever hope to have. You sir, greatly over estimate your importance on this planet.
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:08 PM James wrote:
      Sounds like he needs to be raped !
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    2. 2/11/2009 5:46 PM Katie wrote:
      Feel sorry for the man please because justice delayed is not justice denied. Someday Stephen will meet a higher power and see the truth of his being. As for his wife? She will see the sowing of their behavior in their children someday.
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      1. 2/11/2009 8:11 PM jeff wrote:
        AMEN THE KIDS WILL PROBABLY GET THERE BUTT KICKED
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    3. 2/11/2009 6:57 PM J.L. wrote:
      Right on! I'm not a mid westerner, but oh, I could not stand that guy! He's out of the realm of human decency and integrity and doesn't even begin to know the true meaning of "class." You said everything I wanted to so I just posted a reply to yours. I hope that is ok.
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      1. 2/11/2009 10:17 PM Stephen Fowler wrote:
        How do you act "classy" with a complete redneck that she was? Two people of two different worlds had to live under the same roof, and that obviously did not work out.
        WTF happened to freedom of speech? Can't the guy express his view of Midwest in his own house??? I am glad people like Fowler speak out the truth regardless of the consequences.
        GO FOWLER!!! and f_kc rednecks.
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        1. 2/12/2009 12:36 AM Misheck wrote:
          I think this guy Stephen Fowler is just a racist as I have head a lot of people of his nature from that country where he comes from are racists and very impolite. I didn’t watch the show but if his talking about class and sending his kids to a $40 000 on a bilingual school, well good for him, people who have real money spend that on changing the world in a better place every day. If he has got class, then should the rest of us suffer just because we have fewer resources as compared to him, or maybe should we all send out kids to a “bilingual international” just to keep up with his standards of been modest? Maybe we should blame ourselves for not living in an uptown house just because this guy thinks his the definition of a good life. This guy sucks and I am sure the heavens agree with me. It is clear this guy has some psychological problems and needs help, people with enough money will not criticise but will share their riches for the betterness of the society they are living in. My question is, “how does he want to save the environment if he can not save first, the people that are living around him?” On the other hand, what will be better to have helped someone achieve a better life like yours or to have saved the environment and destroy the people living in it? I now wander how he would treat a black person with this kind of hatred within him; this guy is simply a loser, a racist and worse more ignorant that’s why he would act like that. I now wander what kind of kids he has and if at all they are not the same like him. Shame to Stephen Fowler and his family, the consequences of his actions will catch up with him soon or later and if his wife is still with him probably she’s living a horrible unhappy life.
          People lets change the world, the environment and people by living together in a clean happy environment.
          MN Finland (TKK)
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        2. 2/12/2009 5:46 AM shelly wrote:
          hmmm...before you try to say f**k rednecks,learn how to spell,you got f_kc, i think you spell it fuck,you are just as dumb as he is...lol
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        3. 2/12/2009 11:57 AM Melanie wrote:
          Class isn't about the people around you, it is about YOU.

          He talks about wanting his kids to be "citizens of the world".... I guess just the "better" part of the world, huh?
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    4. 2/11/2009 7:33 PM Ashley wrote:
      I may not be Midwestern, but I am Texan, so does that make me a hick or redneck? Whatever. Oh wait, I'm also a military wife who is a little overweight. Should I blame my beautiful children for my chunky-ness? By the by Mr. Fowler, my husband, who fights for your freedom to be a total douchebag; has been to college for Electrical Engineering. My husband had many many options for his life, he chose to serve this great country and the citizens in it. Oh, and I hold a Masters degree in Psychology, working towards my doctorate, I suppose you could say that your wife and I are life coaches. However, I don't harbor snide or snarky opinions of my clients that could be aired out with the dirty laundry and ruin me in an instant. On to your poor defenseless children in this matter, I don't know what kind of upbringing you had in your childhood, but I suspect your parents didn't love you much either. None the less, letting your children see your behavior is a perfect way to poison their minds and to keep this disgusting cycle going until someone in your bloodline gains enough human decency and compassion to see the error of your ideals.
      America is what she is, and she gives us all a better chance at better lives. If you have such wretched opinions of her citizens, why on God's green Earth would you have chosen to take citizenship here?
      Your fallacy lies in that you believe no one else is comparable to your standards. In reality, your standards are just an illusion for you to make your pitiful attempt at life seem better.
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      1. 2/11/2009 8:14 PM Chris wrote:
        Redneck
        Yes, they are to blame.
        So you love all citizens of the United States? I'll answer it for you of course not.
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        1. 2/12/2009 6:37 AM Ashley wrote:
          Do tell me where on Earth I said I love all the citizens of the US. I stated this country is great and her citizens, whether your love, like, tolerate them or not they deserve some kind of respect. Not being lumped into a heaping stereotype that this man subscribes to. And who may I ask, are you referring to as the ones to blame? Only question I referred to as asking to blame are my children. Which they are certainly not the cause to blame.

          Now, on to other pithy comments for you to twist.
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    5. 2/11/2009 8:07 PM Chris wrote:
      You write that no one cares but you seem very offended by what he had to say and perhaps he is not making up for his thoughts of self-inadequacy maybe he knew that his words would make so many care, placing him in the spotlight. Which would mean all the negative attention hes receiving from everyone "floats his boat", he could be reading your post laughing to himself at your anger and distaste for him. It is quite easy to make others angry and sometimes it can even be fun.
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      1. 2/20/2009 8:56 PM Yep wrote:
        Fowler is a douchebag, but he's not a troll like you. Cute try though! Some of us find feeding trolls fun too. Enjoy little guy!
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    6. 2/11/2009 8:58 PM The Man wrote:
      Just took a good look at Personal Life Media website. First of all, can't prove it, but I think Renee Fowler changed her last name but is still on the site. Second, just reading through the utter tripe on that site made me ill. Nothing more than self promotional, superficial garbage. No wonder that it took Ms. Fowler 2 attempts to apologise, both equally lame. She's as two dimensional and vacuous as the site she promotes herself on.
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    7. 2/12/2009 5:26 AM Melanie wrote:
      The great thing about America is the fact that this person and his wife, who I have no sympathy for, will most likely be castrated from society. They will soon have to venture into the land of the lower middle class. I can not wait!
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    8. 2/12/2009 5:28 AM Kalih wrote:
      In a modern world of live tv (reality) shows, the shock-affect work well. Although Mr. Fowler had no idea what would shape up to be what it (our responses)would become. I know this behavior needed consequences. However, if you read these responses, we sound just like him.... I live in a glass house and choose to hold my stone. Faith has it, he will have to justify to "my Father Who is in Heaven" and ask to be "forgiven his trustpasses" as we should ask for our's. Although the shallow behavior is just that, shallow, he is human with all of his non-perfect flaws. Let up pray that he has learned from his err and want to share his wealth (knowledge) with those who are least of his brothers and sisters. Maybe he will know that compassion was given to him, as was his wealth (knowledge) by the same Father that gave us our's. Think Before We Speak!
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    9. 2/13/2009 2:20 PM Anonymous wrote:
      I was wondering about poor Renee who absolves herself of almost all responsibility for her family fiasco.

      The woman who claimed that she didn't want to spend too much time with her children because she would get "grumpy" is no saint and is certainly not an active participant in her children’s lives (unless it doesn't conflict with her desire to save the planet from McDonald's.

      Let us review all those certifications she is so proud of:
      Certified Life Coach? This can be obtained on line..as long as you buy the DVD’s, an you too can be a Certified Life Coach in just 30 days!

      Certified Master Neuro linguistic programmer:..... can be obtained in a 5 short weekends or a lengthy 2 week immersion course. (sarcasm)

      Certified Life Coach? Consists of 4 grueling in class modules of (30) hours, …too include Individualized business mentoring.

      Certified Hypnotherapist? Hypnotherapy training requirements: All applicants have acquired a total of 60 or more contact hours of classroom instruction. Hypnosis courses of at least 18 hours, which include in-class supervised practice, are needed as part of accumulating the minimum 60 hour requirement.

      I think she is selling a brand of psychobable that she claims can work over the "phone"...."Private and Group Coaching availble. Coaching is equally effective by phone and in person in her San Francisco, CA office".

      http://mindforbody.hotdoodle.com/?section=48

      For a generous fee nodoubt.

      I bet she is just absorbing all this negative energy and then dancing it away.....like the video demonstrates......

      Why volunteer to go forth with the participation in such a show?

      Money, EGO, 15 minutes of fame, promoting your business or the desire to help the rest of us poor slobs.
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    10. 2/13/2009 5:16 PM Anonymous wrote:
      If he is not legally in this country send him back ,he is one stupid person not intelligent at all
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    11. 2/20/2009 11:52 AM Nathan wrote:
      Dude i totally agree with you. im only a senior i high school but i bet i have a higher IQ and more class then he could ever had. Not only that but he insulted my family to not just hers. He is messed up and the children need to be taken from him....but what does the mom think of this. Does she have the same "beliefs" or "values" that he does...GOD i hope not
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  • 2/11/2009 11:16 AM MacDen2 wrote:
    I have been a big fan of Renee's ever since I found her PodCast over a year ago. She's helped me and many others, and I believe her to be genuinely compassionate and kind. I was shocked to see the show. From the first opening descriptions of the families, the editors made the Fowler's sound arrogant, pompous & elitist. I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt & assumed creative editing was responsible for the sour impression. And to a large extent, I do believe this to be true.

    However ... I winced as I watched the show; it was truly painful. How could Renee be married to a man who gloated, took joy and found humor in being intentionally cruel and demeaning to anyone? In front of their young & impressionable children, no less?

    I know Renee had set her intention for only good to come from her experience on Wife Swap. Ask & you will receive. Like her, I do believe this. I also believe that we are presented lessons in life & it is our job to learn from them. I believe we are presented the same lesson, over & over, perhaps in many forms, until we DO learn from it -- painful as that is.

    Renee, I'm sure you are considering the lessons from this experience. I would gently suggest you look again at your response at the very end of the show ... when they return to the families and ask about any changes that have been made. You were sitting next to Stephen, and as I recall you both somewhat chuckled, and you said, "I can't even remember any of Gayla's rules ... no, we haven't changed anything." The quote is not direct ... your words may have been a little different. Was there really nothing for you to learn from Gayla? If not, I am very sad for you.

    Did you notice your children's smiles and how happy they were when they went to the race track and went paintballing with Gayla? Did you hear your daughter's comment about Gayla not being very well educated?

    Perhaps you were very confident in that you knew you had valuable lessons to bring to the Longs. You did indeed have wonderful lessons to offer ... as did they. Perhaps your over-confidence is, in fact, closer to pride & even arrogance. The Longs evaluated the experience and made positive changes ... you did not.

    I am sorry for the pain you must be feeling. I wish for you to learn from this, as I am sure you will. I support you in your journey & wish you success, peace and happiness.
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:09 PM Daniel wrote:
      Don't forget the face Renee shows her customers is the facade that brings in more of their all-important wealth. Everyone should take a lesson here that many times the most successful people get to that point because they do whatever it takes to make it happen. Dignity, honesty, compassion - these are inhibitors when it comes to making a buck. What's more stinging is that Renee at least knows how those values should be observed in her trade but chooses not to uphold them herself or at home. Let's be real about how money changes people.
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    2. 2/11/2009 10:27 PM Josephine wrote:
      GAG GAG GAG ..VOMIT VOMIT VOMIT! RENEE IS A FRIGGIN IDIOT!!!! SHE made a comment that she stays away from her children otherwise they would drive her crazy! And the part about not having a choice of being born on American soil?!?!? DUMB! Funny how the idiot husband speak lowly of the military when the ROYALS require the men to serve in the military. The idiot is an idiot. They are marred in this country and SHOULD GET THE HECK OUT OF AMERICA!!!!
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    3. 2/20/2009 9:38 AM Shirley wrote:
      MacDen2
      Thank you for a well thought out and well said post.
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  • 2/11/2009 2:37 PM kh123 wrote:
    ok knock Mr. Fowler fair game he was a dick. However I see no reason to attack the school his children attend. It's a very good school with a great reputation. Are there other types of schools you dislike or do you just dislike anything associated with Mr. Fowler? The choice of where to send your children to school is a personal one and I think you are straying from the point by attacking his choice of school...

    I'll ignore your very strange point on France becoming an Arabic country...very strange...

    [this is not an attack on the french school, only pointing out how outdated bi-lingual schools are when every public school is de facto a multi-lingual school]

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    1. 2/11/2009 3:24 PM kh123 wrote:
      I think you confuse a bi-lingual educations where the children are taught in more than one language with schools that have children that speak many different languages. There are numerous studies that show the benefits of a bi-lingual education. Having your peers speak many different languages is wonderful environment to grow up in. Having to learn in one of those languages is a much different thing.
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      1. 2/11/2009 5:49 PM Katie wrote:
        Too bad there are so many children in this country that do not get even a moderate education thanks to poverty and such!

        Too bad the fowlers do not make better use of their money and help under privileged kids get a better education and their own kids an adequate one versus a privileged one!
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      2. 2/11/2009 7:40 PM Laurie wrote:
        I totally agree.I have always said when I have children one day I will send them to a school like that. Yes Fowler is very rude and all the other things people say. But the school they attend is a different story. I grew up in a very diverse neighborhood and mixed school. People spoke many languages there, but that doesn't mean I'm just going to learn how to speak it.(These school are teaching these languages and educating with them.) I believe it expands there mind and keeps their brains active and learning. I'm not mad that their children are getting a better education then I had. I only make about 30,000 dollars a year and someone who makes more then I do who can send their kids to a school like that, has every right to.
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    2. 2/11/2009 4:53 PM jac wrote:
      I went to several different public schools that were multi-lingual and i know that nowadays you must have at 2-3 years of foreign language to graduate. The only problem at of my whole graduating class only 6% could actually converse in another language. I had attended an private International school for the first year of high school and the difference was outstanding. I had learned Japanese and Arabic in one year.The three years I spent at public school learning Spanish was horrible. I speak Spanish at home and even my family was appauld with the program they were teaching. The point is you pay for a quality education in this country. Although the public school system isn't terrible and they offer allot , kids nowadays don't care and parents don't put enough interest in their child's study. Now if your paying over 20,000.00 a year for education, you would make sure that your child is leaning something. I'm not a fan of Fowler at all, but you cant talk down on the education his children have. I ended up going to a tri-lingual collage in Mexico , and at 26 year's old I am now fluents in 7 different languages with a MBA and a EdS. degree.
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      1. 2/11/2009 5:33 PM Kelly wrote:
        I totally agree with you: there's a big difference between hearing a language being spoken around you and being able to learn and benefit from it. Foreign language is a subject very close to my heart, and I think it's disgraceful how neglected foreign language is in the public school system. I studied French for four years in high school, and fortunately I had a fantastic teacher who actually taught us through music and news clips from France. We actually learned enough to converse with each other and have a fluid string of dialogue going on. That was such a big deal in my county that they had her on the news for her unique teaching methods... Our class scored above the majority of other French classes just because we were able to speak the language. The Spanish and German classes were able to speak some broken phrases, but I was surprised to see how little other people retained even in the higher levels of language courses... I think it's a shame that other people are deprived the privilege of learning a foreign language thoroughly...
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      2. 2/11/2009 6:30 PM theo wrote:
        is this where you received your spelling education also?
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        1. 2/18/2009 4:09 PM Victoriaipb wrote:
          I think that picking on speling (unless it's that dreadful 'texting' english) is absolutely silly - people are writing cuickly and to be honest its a bit silly to worry about minutes.
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      3. 2/11/2009 6:32 PM Julie wrote:
        Jac, but you aren't fluent in English!
        -Julie
        B.A. German
        M.A. TESOL
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        1. 2/12/2009 4:58 AM C wrote:
          She is absolutely fluent in English! With an M.A. in TESOL you should be able to recognize a high-level speaker.

          Is your German any better?

          C
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      4. 2/11/2009 6:48 PM Dani wrote:
        I REALLY hope English is not your native language!
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  • 2/11/2009 3:36 PM F_UK_JOSH wrote:
    http://blogs.sfweekly.com/thesnitch/2009/02/living_embodiment_of_all_horri.php

    New article! Please go there and comment
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  • 2/11/2009 3:47 PM AJ wrote:
    Get over it, already!
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    1. 2/11/2009 10:28 PM Josephine wrote:
      MUST BE HIS BUDDY OR SOMEONE WHO GETS SOME FROM HIM.... THE ONLY WAY FOR AMERICANS TO GET OVER THIS ONE IS FOR THESE IDIOTS TO LEAVE THIS COUNTRY!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 3:52 PM Ben wrote:
    "France will be an arabic country in less than 20 years if they continue the way they do"

    Uh, no. You are under-educated and over-opinionated! That's not a good combination!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:02 PM Ashley wrote:
    You know how they were smarting off about how midwestern schools aren't that great? Well, the schools we have here have 4 different languages you can take as an elective. You can take all four of them if you like. And its public!
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    1. 2/11/2009 4:34 PM KMW wrote:
      Ashley: taking one language class a year is not even in the same ball park as being taught in a different language.
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    2. 2/11/2009 7:00 PM J.L. wrote:
      Correct!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:03 PM Michael wrote:
    You're a typical Liberal dolt...now trying to recoup what you lost in face value. Not only did you expose the farce you are..but also your liberal agenda holier than thou mentality. Stick it pal..and let me see you act like this to my wife. I'd eat you for lunch.
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    1. 2/11/2009 4:51 PM Nat wrote:
      Rock on!! You hit the nail on the head!! TYPICAL LIBERAL IDIOT!!
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      1. 2/11/2009 5:23 PM Tungsten wrote:
        Says the right wing froot loop.

        As far as I'm concerned, Fowler would fit right into your venomous and deluded little club.
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      2. 2/11/2009 8:54 PM Anthony wrote:
        Just because he is an idiot doesn't make all liberals idiots. In fact, saying this makes you sound like an idiot.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:11 PM Azka Afzal wrote:
    "France will be an arabic country in less than 20 years if they continue the way they do"

    First of all, like the person above me has already said, that shows you as being uneducated because your statement simply isn't true.

    And second of all, Arabic is a language, not a type of country. I think that what you meant to say was Arab. (Again, uneducated.)

    If you want your argument against Fowler's ignorance to be taken seriously, you might want to consider removing this particular statement since it greatly detracts from the point that you are trying to make.
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:03 PM Mac Skiba wrote:
      I agree that this statement detracts from the very fact that Mr Fowler is a complete ass. However truth is France is heading towards a Muslim majority in the next 50 years. Bad or Good? I really don't care however just pointing out that this statement is not entirely inaccurate.

      BTW why is everybody so eager to prove how smart they are? Everybody is going out of there way to sound intelligent and its getting a little pompious.
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      1. 2/11/2009 5:16 PM MissReality wrote:
        After working for a French company for many years and traveling to France, the statement of France heading towards a Muslim majority is correct. The French of course used the immigrants for low level work and most upper class never wanted them to succeed.

        The French are very class oriented. If you do not attend a few specific Universities in France, you do not move up the food chain in business. You cannot attend the Universities unless your parent(s) attended previously, or your family has money.

        Talk about India being class oriented... the French take the cake.
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        1. 2/14/2009 12:47 AM Katritin wrote:
          Right along with the British, as can be exhibited by our dear FOULer.
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    2. 2/11/2009 5:42 PM Samantha Ryan wrote:
      Actually since you are trying to correct others: While the term Arabic is utilized when referring to the language of Arabs, in this particular context, Arabic may be used when referring to the culture and/or language of Arabic peoples. I would not presume that those reading this are not uneducated when I myself to not know the full terminology of a particular word.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:11 PM joe wrote:
    thats funny my e-mail wont be posted lol after you are posting this website. first off get a life 2nd im sure any school not tought by us is better we are 53rd in the world so i can see how they thing there kids should have something better than that!!!! she know what the show was about and if she cant take the truth then. that is her fult.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:12 PM Sue wrote:
    Stephen Fowler Sucks!!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:13 PM hmmm wrote:
    Not only was his behavior bad but also his wife's. She said it was not her fault she was born in the USA. HUH???? Who says that? If they was to be "french" move there.
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:28 PM HateRenne wrote:
      Renee is a nut, she got her certifications online and in the mail. Renee and Stephan despite what they say, are uneducated.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:16 PM Janie wrote:
    Ok, yes this guy was beyond horrible, but it shouldn't reflect poorly on the school his children go to. I actually went to the very same school that his kids currently do, and not only did I get an astonishing amount of financial aid, this school was truly international as well as a great academic experience. I mean, I came into the high school portion barely able to speak Spanish, and left it almost entirely fluent in both French and Spanish.
    Nonetheless, this man is a horrible, horrible representation of the community and he as a person deserves no defense.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:16 PM Maureen wrote:
    What a disgrace to the human race. Who does he think he is? It was like watching an accident in slow motion. I thought he has to turn around, no one can be this self-serving, pompous and completely rude to a guest in his home. Not to mention, someone who just was trying to carry a conversation. He is a horrible father and I can't even imagine who would want to be married to such an ornery creature. I guess they are happy together; I just feel sorry for their children. I'm sure they are the laughing stock of the town. Correction, make that country.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:17 PM Valerie wrote:
    French is not just spoken in France, just like Spanish is not just spoken in Spain. French is commonly spoken all over the African continent, on many Caribbean Islands, in parts of Canada, and many other parts of our world.
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    1. 2/12/2009 2:27 AM Kelly wrote:
      Don't forget in parts of Asia, too. =)
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  • 2/11/2009 4:17 PM Paul wrote:
    I just wanted to respond to the French school comment. I happen to go to one of those "bi-lingual international schools" in New York. The fact is that the french education system demolishes the American education system. The Clintons said it themselves when they visited France. Every student attends school from 8 to 5, and we work our asses off, while most of my American friends in the same grade do nothing everyday (he takes 2 hours of shop, a couple of hours of band and beginners spanish). Think the SATs are fun? Try taking a Baccalaureate. The french system teaches you critical thinking, not relying on multiple choice questions. What's the benefit of going to one of these "bi-lingual international schools"? Let's just say Colleges liked the extra effort we've been making. (Please dont take this as an attack on the American system, I'm just giving some facts based on my own experiences)
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:56 PM American Beauty wrote:
      top 10 Countries Nobel prize winner

      1. USA...... 309
      2. UK....... 114
      3. Germany.. 95
      4. France..... 54
      5. Sweden..... 28
      6. Switzerland 25
      7. Russia..... 22
      8. Italy... 20
      9. Austria..... 19
      10. Holland....18

      Wow USA won 309 Nobel prizes. More than any other country in the World. No wonder America have the best school,University, education, student, scientist, labs and is the BEST country in the world!

      Tee hee
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    2. 2/12/2009 3:35 AM peach wrote:
      Wow! You are so dumb I don't even know where to begin. USA has 300 mil. people!!! You compared your entire country to small countries in Europe. Compare those numbers to individual states and see how many states had Nobel prize winners. Same goes for sports. You should then to be even count ALL European Nobel Prize winners together. Plus, how many of your Nobel prize winners are foreign?
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  • 2/11/2009 4:18 PM Barbara wrote:
    I think Stephen Fowler wanted his kids going to a French School because he is a French Citizen..and maybe he has a higher degree of thinking..and think all Americans are below him. Too bad his Wife had to see his real self...
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  • 2/11/2009 4:18 PM friend wrote:
    some of us still think private is better than public. and since this is america, i'm pretty sure it's still the parents prerogative where they send their children, you know, away from the california public schools that are so financially depraved.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:18 PM Selma wrote:
    "France will be an Arabic country in less than 20 years if they continue the way they do"
    WOW, here we have Arabic / Muslim hater. Well, Folwer is much better then you!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:19 PM Brandon wrote:
    Sorry, got to this party late. Just watched the Wifeswap highlights: fantastic.

    Fowler mentions something about GRE scores. He is almost certainly lying.

    In the first place, if you've taken the GRE, you know that you do not get percentage with decimal precision. You can score in the 99th percentile, but you cannot score in the 99.99 percentile. Also, you do not get one "GRE score"--you get several; scoring in the 99th percentile on one portion of the test isn't all that impressive, particularly considering the 99th percentile on the writing portion encompasses almost 13 percent of total test-takers.

    Second, the notion that GRE scores correlate in any meaningful with IQ scores is absurd, and to suggest that you can get a *specific* IQ score based on your GRE percentile is to suggest that you're probably lying about your test-scoring credentials to begin with.

    Anyone familiar with British culture can spot this guy from a mile away: he is a British "venture capitalist," meaning he *inherited* most if not all of his money, and is happily maintaining a fortune stateside through the sorts of revenue sources elites can generate with little to no education (see Hilton, Paris).

    Fowler's "critiques" of American culture weren't even original. He is, apparently, equal amounts hack and prick.
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    1. 2/11/2009 10:22 PM Josephine wrote:
      The idiot is just that ....an idiot! Anyone who has to put someone down is only trying to push himself above reality. He is an idiot married to an idiot wife and raising idiot children who speak French. THERE GOES HIS WIFE'S BUSINESS AFTER HIS INSULTS TO THE FAT PEOPLE! Anyone with a little bit of brains would figure THAT one out!!! HA HA HA ... what an idiot .... and the world witnessed it! ha. ha. ha.
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    2. 2/20/2009 7:48 AM Dave wrote:
      You're absolutely correct. I do believe that Mensa will allow you to join if you score over a certain level on (one or more) of the GRE tests, the LSAT, the SAT and the MCAT but I'm not 100% sure. However, all that translates to is that they believe that make the minimum IQ level to qualify for Mensa (which is around 130 I believe). You cannot take any of those numbers and map them to a Stanford Binet IQ value since it's not the same type of test.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:19 PM Jord wrote:
    He is awesome for getting his own website! Seriously he is cool. Anyone that doesn't like him sucks. So if you are a fat ass that eats fat food. I'm glad he offended you. Stephen live on, live on.
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    1. 2/11/2009 10:31 PM MARK wrote:
      You must be his bitch!Living in S.F. and all ...
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    2. 2/12/2009 4:08 AM Dawna wrote:
      I hope you are being SARCASTIC; if not you are a f....g prick (I am being nice) just like him!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:19 PM lol wrote:
    Fucking stupid, rofl, you guys don't realize it, best IRL troll ever. You are all stupider for the experience.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:20 PM Rob wrote:
    Growing up in SF, I know this guy. This is the elitist, I'm better than you liberal. He thinks that his politics and thinking make him and his family "above" all the commoners. Their only pleasure in the world comes from making fun of "small minded" people because they aren't open minded themselves and because they have nothing else in their pathetic little lives. Thank you sir for showing the rest of the nation just how truly pathetic our city is.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:21 PM Dawna wrote:
    I could not believe my eyes. My husband and I were sitting down watching the show as usual and what I saw was absolute ignorance. First of all, if he and his wife did not want to be in the U.S., simply go back home, but do not insult the Americans and their ways of life. He was the most arrogant, absurd, most rude, person I have ever seen, heard of or known of. He really thinks he is smart, but I must say, if he were so smart he would not have embarrassed himself like that. He has insulted race, religions, the educated, and those of all walks of life. I hope he can get counseling because should he continue on the course he is on, things will not go well for him.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:23 PM bigrichard wrote:
    i want to have anal sex with stevie and he will not enjoy it
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  • 2/11/2009 4:23 PM Nick wrote:
    Your ignorance itself is just downright insulting. Educate yourself on such a subject before blindly insulting it.
    I'm not going to even make an effort at explaining the French school system around the world because it's not worth the energy.
    But look it up, and maybe you'll understand.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:24 PM Anonymous wrote:
    Why in the hell do people care about this guy so much? Get a life.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:24 PM dragon wrote:
    What a wanker! I really dislike british wankers...
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  • 2/11/2009 4:25 PM Doris wrote:
    I am from the midwest. After watching Stephen Fowler, I realized that the midwest is FAR MORE educated and open-minded than that foreign liberal jackass could ever fathom. He & his wife need to get out of America. Soldiers should NOT have to see this kind of behavior!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:26 PM kim wrote:
    I, too, watched this show with my mouth wide open in amazement. An education doesn't preclude civility and manners. Mr Fowler is simply an incredibly ignorant, horrible man, educated or not. Kudos to the "Best Stephan Fowler Letter ever"
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:36 PM katie wrote:
      Thank you, this was starting to seem like a place to say all liberals are jerks. Jerks are jerks, liberal, or conservative. This man need his mother to to give him a spanking and wash his mouth out with soap. Yes and I am a liberal that belives in spanking uncivil mannerless people!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:27 PM wesley wrote:
    If i ever see that man walking down the city block i will punch him in his crooked ass in bred british face. Get the hell out of this country and take your wife with you. What a joke, his wife is a life coach and she doesn't even have loyalty to her soil. Ha since it wasn't her choice she was born here and she does not like it, then get the f*@#$ out of here and take that piece of sh#*@ husband with you.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:27 PM Paul wrote:
    I WANT TO CHALLENGE THIS BRITISH PIECE OF S*@T TO A UFC LIKE FIGHT!! ANY PLACE ANYWHERE. HOW ABOUT HONDA OR STAPLES CENTER I GOT SOME CONNECTIONS THERE. WE COULD PAY-PER-VIEW IT AND SEND THE MONEY TO CHARITIES THAT HE DOESN'T LIKE!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:29 PM pat wrote:
    What a Dick!!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:31 PM Jeremy wrote:
    I agree with you! If you are going invest effort, time, and money so your child can learn a second language, why not send them to Spanish or Mandarin class? These two languages are extremely useful. Mandarin will be a language students will need to learn for future business/professional careers, since China is moving up in the world and playing a huge-huge role in business, finance, and education.
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    1. 2/20/2009 1:25 AM sffem wrote:
      He probably sent them to the French school, because you can do both English and Chinese immersion classes in the SF public schools...

      You know for free with the great unwashed masses
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  • 2/11/2009 4:33 PM Ghost wrote:
    unfortunately I feel my iq has dropped 10 points after reading this blog.

    You are very very very sad.
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:40 PM steph wrote:
      no steven is very very very sad and his family my opinion just like my asshole
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  • 2/11/2009 4:33 PM Kelly wrote:
    I thought your comment about the use of learning French interesting. I guess you aren't aware that the two (2) official languages of the United Nations is FRENCH & ENGLISH. So from an international standpoint learning French would actually be quite beneficial to their children. Maybe you should do your research before you post things on the internet.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:34 PM Exsqueeze Me? wrote:
    So, it's okay to make salacious comments about Arabs, and the French while at the same time berating someone who makes salacious comments about Americans? Talk about double standard. This guy is the reason why us liberals get slammed. We're not all like that, so stop lumping us in with this guy.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:34 PM Pamela wrote:
    No offense, but it just goes to show you how some people have nothing better to do with their time.

    The purpose of this blog for example, which is a perfect one, pretty much speaks of the pointless shit the internet is cluttering up with.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:34 PM diane wrote:
    he was a mean,hurtful man that needs to learn respect for women.dont know how his wife can stand him kids either.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:35 PM buddy wrote:
    while i dont agree with mr. fowlers behavior, or his actions, i think that whoever wrote this article is probably an uneducated, racist piece of shit who would benefit largely from pulling their nascar hat covered head out of their asses. i hate red-necks like you. who the fuck cares if this guy sends his kids to a french school. and what do you have against cantonese, chinese or latin american people? if you had your choice, you white supremist piece of shit, you would probably send your kids to an all white privite school where the main cirriculum consists of learning about how good walmart, george bush and nascar are, and how un-american environmentalists, french people, and mexicans are.
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:43 PM Malaya wrote:
      Shows just how "smart" you are Cantonese are Chinese. Most Chinese in Hong Kong speak Cantonese!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:35 PM carol wrote:
    I was shocked to hear the way this so called man talked to his swapped wife. I felt her family was very nice and interesting, kindness goes along way with me, and guess what, i am of french desent, and upper middle class. I can only wonder if this real wife of his has lost most of her clients that are trying to lose weight? For i would think that being married to a man like that she would have to agree with his issue of his disgust of overweight people. So i would think she is only in it for the money and a sham at really caring for the overweight. I would thing she is really disgusted by them as well. Shame on you Stephen and Renee, your the type of people that disgust me. I felt Gayla handled the horrible situation with grace and my heart went out to her.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:36 PM Rick wrote:
    Who doesn't hate fat people. If she doesn't like the way she was treated, perhaps weight-loss and an education will help. He has a right to his opinion, which everyone shares except the fat people who are enraged, and if you don't like it, turn the fucking channel.
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    1. 2/20/2009 1:29 AM sffem wrote:
      Rick, you are right...Gay;a can go to school and lose weight to 'correct' her issues...

      What can Steven Fowler do to correct his issues...you know arrogance, meanness and rudeness?
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  • 2/11/2009 4:36 PM Real Class wrote:
    There is nothing "upper class" about people like this guy.

    Education and/or financial status real or imagined does not define what class we are . . .
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  • 2/11/2009 4:36 PM nitewalker wrote:
    i just want to add that i live in arkansas.right below missouri.i play paintball,ride horses and 4 wheeler and drive a 4x4.my kids are 13 and 9.they respect adults at all times and yes i am a redneck! i make good money and would be willing to pay for a first class ticket for mister fowler to visit me on my property.me and MR.rich need to have a talk about downgrading people and this country! we need to step outside about how he talks to a lady!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:36 PM Lisa wrote:
    He showed his true colors and just how ignorant he really is. Those who know him really aren't that surprised. I'm sure this will affect both his personal and business life. His wife really isn't too bright either.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:38 PM RC wrote:
    At first I thought this guy was about as idiotic as they come, and then I read the ramblings of the idiotic authors on this blog. As much of a jackass as Fowler is I'd much rather have him as my neighbor than you.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:40 PM Anonymous wrote:
    nothing better than an obnoxious foreigner who comes here to get rich and criticizes everything about the country and its people! You gotta love it.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:40 PM Winter wrote:
    The man clearly has self-esteem issues.
    I don't understand how anyone can put up with someone that pompous. I have nothing against bi-lingual French schools. My own children speak French very well, not because they went to a school for it, but because they were able to pick it up very easily.

    I like this site - because the idiot can see just how much he is despised in society.
    He's dirt and should be treated like dirt.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:40 PM Terry Sweet wrote:
    It's merely Mr Fowlers self hate that he project on others, and the country. Perhaps he was secretly attracted to her, and so denied the feelings with anger. I wonder who has the money to pay this guy, and why they bother, and how I can get then to give money to us!! We're nice here... That treatments is going on to Missourian's in ther own state as well.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:41 PM Laurent wrote:
    Here we go again with the French bashing...This guy is British, not French, OK ? It's not because this typical elitist wants his kids to learn the French language that France is to be blamed for his behavior. The Bay Area is full of these wannabes who have highjacked French culture for attention or make money (Phony French restaurants, wineries, retail stores, art galleries, etc, are all over the place if you haven't noticed.) I'm a French native and both my kids go to a SF public school like most French expatriates. I'm sick and tired of my country and culture being trashed and blamed because of these phonies !
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  • 2/11/2009 4:42 PM Blooper wrote:
    I can't beleive what that dumbutt did to Galay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!He's so stupid
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  • 2/11/2009 4:42 PM Rick wrote:
    I would just like to say I am in total agreement with the gentlemen who advised him to pack his shit and leave the Country he soo dislikes. I am disgusted at the fact that not only I, but now my daughter enlisted in the military to defend such pri#k# as him. It is those such as he that so repulse most of the average Americans who (I am sure he obtained his own wealth from) that help to give the US such a bad name. Just what kind of pompous spoiled assholes are being allowed on this show now? Is there no prescreening? I think in the next episode they should lock him in a room with the womans husband for an hour. He should make his future choices much more carefully. The next show might involve my wife! I am sure his just reward will soon be forthcoming and trust he will one day be put in his place. I for one as a loving husband and REAL man will apologize to that poor woman and would bet anything that while that ass thinks he is above us he would most likely not make it a week if he lost all he had and had to make it in the real world. What a sad example of a human being............
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  • 2/11/2009 4:43 PM yertle the turtle wrote:
    Typical educated liberal asshole.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:46 PM Tara wrote:
    What do you have against French people and why are you calling the language useless?

    Glass houses...stones..
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  • 2/11/2009 4:46 PM UNEEDURAZZBEAT wrote:
    Don't EVER let me catch your limey azz on the street bitch--you'll QUICKLY become familiarized with the term "Curb Job". lol
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  • 2/11/2009 4:48 PM Kel wrote:
    It's true. Money doesn't buy class. Stephen was horribly rude and crass. He was horrible!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:48 PM Kellie wrote:
    The Fowlers don't even own their home in San Francisco.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:49 PM Anonymous wrote:
    This man may be elitist, but he has a right to say what he wants. Unfortuneatly, many Americans are uneducated, and if you say that man made an ass of himself on national television, the entire Long family made themselves out to be total idiots. They are absolutely disgusting.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:50 PM Florsie wrote:
    I went to private international schools during my whole K-12 education. I did learn english and french pretty well and it did help me to get into one of the best colleges here in Mexico. However, my parents never forced me into silly afterschool activities or into doing things I didn't care about. I wouldn't go as far as saying that Renée is doing everything wrong. She chooses what to do with her childrens' school lives. But if I was her, I wouldn't be so surprised about my children ending up completely frustrated because they are not doing what THEY want.

    I might not totally agree with the Long Family lifestyle. Still, I think it is completely rude and unnecessary bullying what Mr. Fowler did. Yes, Wife Swap is all about culture clashes, but in the end maybe you can learn something positive about the whole experience. In this case, I didn't see anything positive AT ALL. Mr. Fowler should definitely get help and learn that judging people that way will take him nowhere. Snobbish bastards like him are the ones who help build the stereotype regarding snobbish europeans. Hell, even snobbish europeans I've met are absolutely nice and easy-going. I was in a French Lycée for 4 years and I know how snobbish can people get.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:50 PM Doug Frederickson wrote:
    What an ignorant, idiotic post. It takes a lot more than being around people that speak different languages to learn a different language. Also, learning a language like French makes it much easier to learn Spanish, or Mandarin, or Russian or any other language, especially if they've been taught French from an early age. Perhaps next time you should learn a little about linguistics before you publish your ignorance to the world.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:51 PM Nadia wrote:
    I completely disagree with the following statement: "In conclusion, most public schools in San Francisco are tri-lingual at the least. No need to spend money on a private bi-lingual school."

    The fact that you know and or grow up surrounded by people who speak a different language doesn't mean that you will learn it. You can pick up words and expressions, but learning a language takes more than simply sitting next to someone who speaks something else besides English. You not only need to learn how to speak it correctly, but also learn grammar, read it and be fluent. Education has a high price, but it is extremely rewarding. I speak three languages and I will make every effort to make sure my children learn three or more. San
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  • 2/11/2009 4:51 PM Redneck wrote:
    You finally made the YAHOO front page. It's about time!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:51 PM TheCardinal wrote:
    Someone needs to gently remind Mr. Fowler that if not for the military, the U.S. military specifically ( large number of which came from the middle of the country), he would have probably grown up speaking German.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:52 PM DD wrote:
    Wow, stephen fowler is such a fucking little bitch.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:52 PM Lisa wrote:
    Stephen Fowler is what is wrong with the United States. Go choke on a fag you wanker! You don't belong in the US. Take your stuck-up, insignificant wife with her stupid "healing" chants with you. I feel sorry for your kids and don't blame them if they never speak to you again after 18 years of your arrogance.
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  • 2/11/2009 4:54 PM Remmy wrote:
    Anyone who lives in this country and slams our military should be alienated and force to leave! Fuck him and his over-educational self! Somebody should soley enjoy giving him some "street love" with a baseball bat and end it with a pine box (and stuff that bitch of a wife of his in there with him)!!! Then adopt those children, so they may live a REAL life!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:58 PM Angry at the Brit wrote:
    This guy is a complete asshole! I hope he has learned his lesson from all of this lambasting of his character!
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  • 2/11/2009 4:58 PM Jason wrote:
    Ha! You are all a bunch of whiners. Stephen Fowler was the only interesting thing to ever happen on that show. He is my new personal hero.

    Reality TV is about humiliating people - period. Stephen Fowler is the king.
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:11 PM Ihatehimtoo wrote:
      You like watching innocent women get verbally abused? Does that do it for you? If he's the only interesting thing in your life, I guess I should feel sorry for you too. pitypartyforjason.com
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  • 2/11/2009 5:01 PM Me wrote:
    Well i never got to see this episode however from what i heard this man sounds horrible.Now i need to catch this episode and see whats going on.Fyi i read about this on yahoo so i figured i would say hi!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:02 PM Justin wrote:
    From a sixteen year old stand-point with an 149 IQ, even understands the phycological impurities you displayed on America's television. I personally think that you are ill minded in making decisions that could cause you your career and identity. Sir, I hope maybe that you will learn from these actions because it will be absolute hell if you think that someone is lower than you in cerebral intelligence should be treated with less respect. I'm sorry but you must understand that society doesn't approve people that think lower of others, which youv'e done. Now you pay with obvious concequences consequences. Oh, and just because your british doesn't mean anything in this world. American isn't a race and neither is British. Theyr'e nationalities and neither are higher in standards, it doesnt depend on how thick the book is but of what the content inside that book is. Please, I hope this helps, we are human and make very large mistakes. There is always room to improve. I strongly advise you take advice that is needed for you to improve.
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:51 PM kim wrote:
      Dear Justin, judging by your misspelled words, incorrect usage of those words and lack of grammar, I suspect your IQ equals the sum of your claimed 149. Do you have a calculator handy so you can figure that number, son? Here's a hint if you don't: You have enough fingers and toes. Stay in school.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:03 PM Thomas Riccardi wrote:
    There are people that think just because they are smart and rich that they're better than everyone else. Well let me pose this argument to this idiot. If I were to get a gun and shoot you in the head (not that I am going to, just hear me out) what would happen?

    YOU'D DIE.

    You're not a god. You're not a superhero. You're not anything but an egotistical PRICK who's full of himself and thinks that because you have money that you have class. Money you have.. class you do not. I went to public schools until High School where I went to a private catholic high school. Know what the difference was between them? You had to pay to go to school and you had to wear a fricking suit and tie everyday. It sucked! There were still gangs, drugs, violence and all that shit that's in regular school! Just because you're paying for an education doesn't make that school any better! And you're making a small child take up fencing? Are you DENSE?

    This is out on Yahoo right now and they say that Mr. jackass posted an apology and his wife posted her stance on it. You know what happens if you click on either link? You get a permission denied page! Wow.. that was fast. Have a change of heart there bunky?

    One day this fucking retard is going to say the wrong thing to the wrong person (oh wait.. he prolly won't because he picked on a girl. He wouldn't DARE say that to a man, because he'd KNOW he would get his ass kicked) and he's going to get severely beaten for it. Just remember sir that every action has a consequence.

    Oh and if you don't like America? FUCKING GET THE HELL OUT! LEAVE! WE DO NOT NEED YOU HERE ASSHOLE! Insult the military in my presence and see what it gets you..
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  • 2/11/2009 5:03 PM James wrote:
    My wife and I are both physicians. Both my son's race Go-kart. He is a french coward that needs to back to the motherland.
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    1. 2/12/2009 3:54 AM peach wrote:
      Wow, I feel sorry for your patients! You are a physician but you did not realize that the man is BRITISH NOT FRENCH! Learn how to read please! Scary! What state do you and your wife practice in? Must be Kentucky
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  • 2/11/2009 5:05 PM Joyce alfrey wrote:
    Stephen acted like an idiot, in my opinion. I think that family should have forfeited the money. They did not deserve it after such horrible behavior.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:07 PM military wrote:
    well this is the way i see it i protect his British butt but wait wasn't it us that stomped britian army and became out own nation well the way i see it if ya don't like America and have his views you can give back your citizenship and all the rights that you didn't fight for back and move your happy butt back to england. if your a citizen of the USA then the national anthem should mean something to ya and if it offends you then go back to your none war winning country so those of us that put our lives on the line for it daily will have less none supporters to defend or better yet since you don't like America go play blocker for all the bullets being shot at us patriotic citizens in harms way
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  • 2/11/2009 5:08 PM Ihatehimtoo wrote:
    OH...MY...GAWD...Thank you for this site. I watched that show and was horrified. I was so incensed I googled him right after and contemplated emailing the lawfirm that he worked at and then figured I'd probably get my ass sued and moved on. And then I see him on my homepage? KARMA'S A BITCH. Enjoy your 15 minutes..and all for 20k????? Muwahahahahahaha....neener-neener-neener. :-p
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  • 2/11/2009 5:08 PM melanom wrote:
    I'm not a fan of wife swap... but this Fowler guy sounds like a prick. But... person who wrote this article... not to be mean or anything... but French is the second most spoken language in the world. French isn't just spoken in France but about 2/3s of the countries in Africa, and some parts of the Middle East. And if you knew anyone who went to school in San Fran... you should also know that San Fran has a really bad public and magnet school system at this moment of time. Many parents in San Fran are sending their kids to much more expensive schools, so at least they can learn. I'm not defending this person... I don't know him... but... well not to side with the French either... but you should check your facts before stating something. I live in California. The percent of high school kids going to college from a public school... in LA... is like 20%. Where as a private of Bi-lingual international school is at the least 95% huge difference. I graduated from a private high school myself 2 years ago and have known some bi-lingual international kids. San Fran's schooling system is way worse and continues to worsen. In LA the percentage of public school kids achieving grade level or higher is 1.2%. That is down right miserable. There is nothing wrong with parents wanting their kids to go to good schools, but if the government won't supply adequate education... then well there are alternatives... if you have the money... sadly enough. BTW many parents and congressmen feel that the US educational system should transcend to the French school style, or something similar

    By what I have heard here... you guys shouldn't be mad at the schooling system Fowler chooses or what he said. Pity him for what he says makes him a low human being, and even though he thinks he is better than everyone he knows... in reality he is most likely shy and insecure. BTW... Paris Hilton went to some really good private schools.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:08 PM Ron wrote:
    I saw this show. Fowler is an embarrassment to the human race. I am educated and have traveled. I have lived in Europe. Bo person with any kind of class would treat another human being like he treated that guest in his home. Do I agree with the lifestyle of the other family? Of course not, but that should give the opportunity to teach, not to abuse, which is what he did, and in the process, his own family was abused, and he is too stupid to realize it.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:09 PM Brian wrote:
    This website is ridiculous. You are just as bad as Stephen for building it. And all this talk about IQs here and so on...gimme a break. If you were really smart you'd know that it's nothing more than a number.

    Fowler is a jerk but this site is not much better.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:10 PM joe wrote:
    "In conclusion, most public schools in San Francisco are tri-lingual at the least."

    Lol no.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:12 PM Johnnyboy wrote:
    Hi, first of all I want to point out that I'm neither American nor French, but it's very funny to see that your typical anti-French sentiment even comes in here, where it's completely out of place. I guess that doesn't make you better than the person your criticizing.
    For your info:
    *Expat communities are not from some bygone era, they still do exist and are ever-growing. In fact I happen to live next to a huge American International School.
    *French is a pretty useful language in many places where people don't speak a word of English (yes, they do exist all over the world, go check!)
    *Even if France would become an Arab country (what a surreal silly remark), probably French will still be spoken over there as most North African Arabs who immigrate(d) to France speak French.

    Have lots of fun watching your show. I hope I'll visit San Francisco and its diverse public schools some day. I hope you'll visit the rest of the world some day.

    (It seems that while I was writing this comment the post has been edited to remove some parts about Arabs and French... well, that's both good and very funny, lol!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:14 PM Sean wrote:
    This runt boasts to have worldly experiences. Apparently not, evident by way of the mindless shit that spews from his abomination of a human mouth. The only reason you continue waste my oxygen, Mr. Fowler, is because of the U.S. laws that protect your miserable existence. I could crush your soul with a glance.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:14 PM heather wrote:
    and he believes he has an educated mind!?!?! all he did the entire show was show what a piece of shit him and his family are! I can't believe there are such worthless people like him out there...why did he even bother coming to the US!? go burden London with your unforgivable, piece of shit self..you and your wife should be absolutely ashamed!! those poor kids are going to turn out to be as pathetic as their parents...and they should be more concerned with spending QUALITY time with their kids rather than programming them to be as ignorant and stuck up as they are! they may have the french lessons and alot of money, but it appears to me and most likely the rest of the country that they are nothing but worthless assholes...to be so warped as to think that they are better than everyone and so "educated" when really all they did was prove how much they lack in understanding the human condition, the simple act of being a civilized human being to another human being, the condescending way he talked to that woman in front of the children; he has no respect and the very thought of anyone acting like that makes my blood boil. get the fuck out!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:14 PM aj wrote:
    he should not talk about fat people because not all of use are fat by choice some of us are actually trying to loose weight case in point THE BIGGEST LOSER reality show soy Stephen Fowler GO TO FUCKING HELL AND GROW A PAIR
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  • 2/11/2009 5:15 PM jerry wrote:
    Frico is a human cesspool. Fowler is probably one of the better husbands there. I spent several years there working and despised the place. Hopefully another huge earthquake will level the slum entirely
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  • 2/11/2009 5:16 PM Lynn wrote:
    As a side note, just because you are down on Fowler, don't insult French or folks learning or TEACHING French. I teach French and Spanish (in a public school). The learning of any other language is beneficial if it aides understanding and communication.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:18 PM Karim wrote:
    Lol ! An ignorant criticizing an elitist by using the same kind of prejudice this time against the French and the Arabs. You just proved that you're the flip side of the same coin! FYI, the French language is still used at the UN and still spoken all over the world, especially in Arab countries. Moreover, learning French will actually expand your vocabulary in English since about 40 % of modern English is derived from French because of the Normans and shared monarchies for centuries...get a clue, will you ?
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  • 2/11/2009 5:18 PM American Soldier wrote:
    I have a Masters in Forensic Psychology and I am soldier in the United States Army you are not a hard person to find A$$HOLE!
    stephenfowler@yahoo.com or 648-4811.
    Stephen Fowler, who lives at 25th and Castro Street Noe Valley, San Francisco California
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:57 PM kim wrote:
      Forget Stephen Fowler. I would rather e more with you Mr. Soldier. And the first thing I wish to say is: THANK YOU SO VERY, VERY MUCH.
      Kim
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  • 2/11/2009 5:19 PM donald wrote:
    THIS GUY IS A TOTAL ASSHOLE HE IS VERY UNAMERICAN,IF HE DONT LIKE THE PEOPLE HERE HE SHOULD GO BACK TO WHERE EVER YOU COME FROM,IF HE DOES MAKE MORE MONEY THEN THE WIFE SWAP WELL GOOD FOR HIM, HE SHOULD SPENT SOME OF THE MONEY ON A CLASS FOR GOOD MANNERS,AND TAKE THE REST AND GO BACK TOO WHERE HE CAME FROM AND SO SHOULD HIS REAL WIFE,NOT EVERYONE IS PERFECT,AND THEY ARE NOT TOO,IF YOU DONT LIKE THE PEOPLE HEREAND YOUR JUST HERE FOR THE MONEY THATS ASHAME,MONEY CANT BUY EVERYTHING,AND IN THE LONG RUN THE WAY YOU TREAT YOUR KIDS AS THEY COME OF AGE THEY WILL LEAVE YOU,I WISH YOU WOULD MAKE A VISIT TO RURAL USA, YOU WOULD BE LIKE THAT I PROMISE,IN THE LONG RUN STEVE DONT DO NO MORE SHOW ,THAT YOU WILL REGET,FROM NORTH CAROLINA
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  • 2/11/2009 5:19 PM Annie wrote:
    He has the audacity to put down the military, the very people who defend his right to free speech? I don't understand how he can so freely use this right and with the same tongue berate the military? I feel sorry for him because he appears to be very ignorant and insecure.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:20 PM Anonymous wrote:
    Steven Fowler is a disgrace to the UK, but then what can you expect from an east-ender who had to move to U.S. as he obviously couldn't make it in his own country. I say go back to the UK!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:21 PM katie wrote:
    I agree that children will encounter many languages in regular San Francisco schools, but I have to defend bilingual schools. The idea is that children learn in both languages, not that they are exposed to both. Its a system of teaching that is not without usefullness. With that said $40,000 a year for tuition to any school is a rip off unless they pick you up every morning on a pink pony that flies.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:23 PM Larry wrote:
    Hey send her an email rstephens@mindforbody.com
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  • 2/11/2009 5:23 PM Doug From Santa fe Nm wrote:
    I watched the Stephen Fowler as he made a huge a@! of himself. Fowler is the idiot, no one should act as he did on national tv. He should be deported back to hell.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:25 PM mike wrote:
    Obvious that this guy is a victim of "little man's syndrome". Has to insult women in order to make himself feel big and important. I am still struggling to understand how an Englishman has such a strong desire for his children to learn French. The French hate the British and always will but maybe "little man" is not accepted in the eyes of his own people so now he has decided to side with the enemy. I only hope he has no plans of sending his children to France where the little gay looking son of his will experience a butt whipping of a lifetime. My only other dilemna is how Mr Long sat right across the table from the little whimp and did not knock him into a comma state. The network must have given him a big bonus to restrain himself before they shot that scene......
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  • 2/11/2009 5:26 PM Derek wrote:
    just leave this guy alone. Don't you have anything better to do with your lives? It's people like you who are killing freedom of speech. Assholes
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:46 PM Anonymous wrote:
      Well if we left it alone then we would be in agreement with this guy, all we are doing is showing 100% dissaproval of his actions. #1 him being a foriegner and bashing middle class americans. #2 Bashing american values (not that we value idiocracy over humanity lie he does) #3 He's showing Us americans that he and the rest of the europeons (yes I misspelled that intentionally) what they really think of american culture and values. Yes we do think we are really smart and the rest of the world has gone mad. Just look at the mid east. Americans are fighting not only for our freedom but we are fighting for the whole worlds freedom as well. Those that join us we welcome those that hate us we destroy.
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    2. 2/12/2009 6:43 PM Mike wrote:
      i also have the freedom to bust you right in your gay azzz nose punk. what are you, fowler's butt bud??
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  • 2/11/2009 5:26 PM brian wrote:
    you dirty brit you need to take your ass back to your country and take your non-american wife with you.I have never wactched this show before but my wife said it was a good show. I had to do all that I could not to reach through the tv and choke the shit out of this non-american dirtbag.i liked the concept of the show and glad that they aired it to show us true americans what kind of people live among us.remember we still have the right to bare arms.thanx brian from lutz florida
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  • 2/11/2009 5:26 PM Allen wrote:
    Why doesn't he return to his own country? As I recall, we sent the first batch of his countrymen back home with their tail between their legs. He will not be missed except by Nancy Pelosi.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:27 PM Vicki wrote:
    Expats are not something from "a bygone era." I'm an expat living in Bangalore, India. I live in a community here of about 50% expatriate families and 50% Indian families (many of whom had left India for school or work, but have returned).

    I didn't see this particular episode of "Wife Swap," but the husband in question sounds pretty heinous. I would just caution the readers to be careful about classifying all "international schools" as being tony, upper-crust ways of avoiding mixing with "the little people." My sons attend an international school, which has students from nearly 40 countries. They have the option to learn French - but they also have the option to learn Hindi, German, and Spanish.

    Indian public schools are, like public schools in America, widely diverse as far as their offerings and the qualifications of their faculty. Since our boys are very young, we wanted to minimize as much as possible the impact on their day-to-day schooling, and make sure they are able to return to their US school as seamlessly as possible. An international school that adheres strictly to standards set by educators from many nations was the best option for our children.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:28 PM Ray wrote:
    Hmmmm. Lets see, since this guy just wrote the book "How to dismantle american middle class women" Lets start a new chapter in "How to dismantle Elite upperclass Brits" Sir you may have all the brains in the world, but it really doesntwork when your head is so far up your a** that you cant even recognize humanity. Lets put it this way. When the world economy collapses completely (and I am sure you have a fix for that), you are no longer in that so called elevated social status, which means you become just an ordinary fellow. Totally unimportant and with out a heart or a bit of compassion for anything other than yourself. Funny how the Bible has not excluded science, and Science cant Disclude the biblical creation nor the Flood of Noah. all science has been able to do is enhance our understanding of why God created the heavens and the Earth. It was to ensure that Life will still exist long after you don't. and if you dont like my grammer or typing skills, big deal. I have never heard of you, nor do I wish to know you.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:29 PM teachermom wrote:
    I was born and raised in the US. But my parents came from Norther Ireland and I have lots of relatives still there. I can't tell you how jealous and hateful the people in Europe are towards the US. They take an elitist attitude and think we are all country bumpkins. For someone like Stephen Fowler he is a bacteria that is permeating this country. My suggestion to him is to GET OUT and find another place to live if you think you are so better that us. The US is really a very tollerant country, far more than the Brits and French. They think their MMMMM doesn't stink!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:29 PM Trail-Mix wrote:
    Personally...I would love to meet Stephen Fowler...because I would violently beat the living daylights out of him and spit in his wife's face!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:29 PM Adam wrote:
    "France will be an arabic country in less than 20 years if they continue the way they do"

    --you must have taken this statement of the entry not to long ago... because it was on there about an hour ago.

    Yes the man was a dickhead. But saying something like this just confirms what he said. This is just as bad as when Americans for a while changed the name of French fries to "Freedom Fries" and like idiots decided to pour French wine down the sewer after France (smartly and justly) decided not to fight in our wars and invade a sovereign nation... which the Americans CRIED LIKE SNOBBISH 3 YEAR OLD CHILDREN who didn't get the toy they wanted. Pathetic.

    "You might want to argue the usefulness of learning french"

    ...it was once the international language and still the language diplomacy and academic. French is the one language that can get to the point, is most precise, and can say the most without saying too much.

    AND as for the comment made:

    "Someone needs to gently remind Mr. Fowler that if not for the military, the U.S. military specifically ( large number of which came from the middle of the country), he would have probably grown up speaking German."

    ---of course......... America as always enters the war at the very end and claims to be the victors...


    And as well the American educational system in't exactly top rated, and if you can afford to send your child to one of these schools... for the child's sake... it should be done.

    Here's a joke for you...

    "What do you call Someone who speaks 3 languages?

    Trilingual

    Someone who speaks 2?

    Bilingual

    Someone who speaks 1?

    AMERICAN"
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    1. 2/11/2009 6:00 PM Ray wrote:
      Well well we enter the war in its ending and claim victory huh. I still wonder why germany didn't invade britain when they had the chance. You see Americans were preparing tactics from british and french intelligence reports long before they went in and fought germany. we developed the technology that the brits and french used to fight against germany, and we developed a strong bond of unity against oppressive nations. all this even before we entered the fight. the american public did not want war and it took a devastating act of aggression from japan to get the public motivated for war. Roosevelt new this and thus we didn't enter in to that war until then but we already had our planes , guns and ammunition there on british soil and our ships were put in place and once the war cry sounded we whooped some a**. hows that for your history lesson.
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      1. 2/14/2009 1:34 PM Adam wrote:
        man......... it was a collaborative effort... America didn't save the world like they always think they did. you are forgetting about groups like La Resistance that were able to hold off the Germans and their puppet states.

        ... and don't forget that if it wasn't for the help of France the US probably wouldn't exsist today!!
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    2. 2/11/2009 8:55 PM Malaya wrote:
      Adam my son!
      Living here in Malaysia I seem to understand both you and this flower chap. You are both British, just look how you guys from the UK act in Asia. You look down on the rest of the world and think everyone should look up to you(British)
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      1. 2/14/2009 1:37 PM Adam wrote:
        I've got news for you!!! I'm not British!

        And explain to me how I'm looking down on someone... when it' the Americans who think they are the centre of the world???
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  • 2/11/2009 5:31 PM Texan in Georgia wrote:
    So I watch reality shows. At least the interesting ones. Wife swap is interesting in a weird sort of way.

    Im also used to egocentric buttheads. I mean without them the shows cease to be interesting.

    But Stephen Fowler was uncommon. He was so disgustingly nasty and evil I could barely keep from throwing something at the tube.

    I was simply in shock. I was hoping that he was just putting on act, but this piefaced foreigner is evil to the core.

    I hope that the evil he gave out comes back to him 10 fold. And to the producers please dont ever bring someone like him on again. This snobbish faux aristocrat doesnt deserve to live in this great country. Please find a way to deport him. NOW.

    Thanks for this website. Knowing its up helps my anger to subside.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:31 PM steph wrote:
    u know i hate this asshole i admit they are overweight i like that they were concerned about that. but fowler that prick has no right to be so RUDE. im a midwesterner and id like to beat the hell out of steve "the fucker" fowler how dare him be so unwilling to participate. his kids looked boring as hell i mean no french fries "wtf" do they eat ice cream? probably not but my level of education can't comprehend these things...according to steven "the fucker" fowler. yes steven U R FOWL TO HER GAYLA!!!!!! since you read how about reading a book communicating on all levels of people. lesson #1 people have feelings dammit!!!!! would u talk to urself like that!!! huh huh huh? regardless of ur so called propaganda education. let's hope u don't need gayla and her family in a fuckin crisis...regardless of ur so called education!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:31 PM Kate wrote:
    "When I heard Renee saying that her kids attend an international school it reminded me of a bygone era when cities like Tokyo, Paris or Buenos Aires had expat communities (diplomats etc) who did not want their children to attend the local schools. "

    Um, you realize those exist, right? That's hardly a bygone era, haha...and they exist for legitimate reasons, lots of students at international schools move around a lot and switching from one country's way of doing school to another (they are often verrrry different) can be a detriment to the student's education. International schools offer more of a similar system so it's not so abrupt. Don't be dumb.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:33 PM Tom wrote:
    He's the typical elitist, San Francisco, Subaru driving, granola eating, piece of vermin. Good thing he wasnt at my house! I would have kicked his skinny, natural ass . . . No let me take that back, my wife would have.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:33 PM Nick L.G. wrote:
    Wussy! What a punk. I'm a guy that would LOVE to step toe-2-toe with this chump. SLAP SLAP SLAP, to the ground he'd fall. PLEASE, contact me....I have a wife that would kick the crap out of this weak-minded fool. This is clearly a guy that grew up with a lack of integrity....maybe he didn't have a father at home to model for him! Maybe he never learned how to treat a woman?! Maybe he treats his current wife the same way?! Maybe his current wife should dump his sorry good-for-nothing loud mouth?! Sadly, chances are, his current wife is internally weak, and he has her trained, like a puppy....and therefore he's able to treat her, well, like a puppy. It's clear he's never been around a strong, intelligent, and self-dignified woman, one with class. If this punk grew up in the home that raised me and my brothers (a large strong Greek family), and had he been witnessed treated a woman the way he gets away treating his wife (and the poor woman that had to put up with his second-class behavior, he would have had his arse kicked so fast and so frequently that he would have needed false teeth by the time be was 17! It's usually males like this that had poor childhoods, were given a false sense of security by running his big mouth. It's clear he was never taught to be a man, a real man, one that knows how to treat a woman. Second-class citizen, that's all I can think when it comes to this chump. I'll guarantee you that if he has pets of any sort, he abuses them, guaranteed. If his wife is weak enough to put up with him, she is abused, guaranteed. If the kids are in this home, they are abused, guaranteed. In short, the little boy needs professional help, therapy, medication, maybe some inpatient treatment. Or, skip all of the above and send him to prison and then let's see him open his mouth the way he does....he'd be smacked to the ground like a rag doll and tossed about until his slippery spin was unable to support his weak frail body. He needs a dose of reality, he needs his arse kicked like it's never been kicked before....and he deserves just that!!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:35 PM bgab wrote:
    This guy seems like an asshole. Its easy to say he sucks.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:35 PM Kaede wrote:
    I think Fowler did a great job showing the world how narrow minded and uneducated he is. I feel so sorry for his children.

    In my experience, people who are snobbish about their education are the least truly educated. What a pathetic person.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:37 PM Overweight and Careless wrote:
    So... I'll begin it as this... certainly this mans actions were clearly uncalled for, but I'd like all you people who are acting shocked and offended to stop and think how many times YOU'VE made fun of some one... and don't you dare say NO ONE, but you have, whether it was high school, middle school, college, or just at the office... or even in the grocery store.. we all make fun of people, some more so cruel then others... so here's what you people are doing... you are negatively reinforcing this mans behavior by paying so much attention to it, and making websites about him, etc... do you really have to wonder why people act badly in order to be noticed? If no one made a big deal about it, it would fizzle off and die down... would he learn a lesson? Most likely not, but who really does? I'm overweight and not remotely offended by anything he said... I hear comments all the time... but even being overweight, I make comments all the time. Its human nature... how about we stop negatively reinforcing it, and just drop it? He obviously won't grow, or learn... can't change em all!
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:53 PM Sheree wrote:
      Are you serious? High School? Middle School? Stephen is a grown adult behaving like this. Don't compare apples to oranges, we are not in school anymore.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:37 PM tony wrote:
    Wow this guy is sick i feel bad for his wife and kids. send him back to his bloody where ever he came from. He should be shamed of him self. And his family should be shame of him. WOW. I hope you are really reading this and you sit back with your wife and deeply think about what kind of living creature you guys are( not human nor animal in my eyes anyway) wow. can't belvive something like you exist.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:39 PM Peter wrote:
    Dear Mr Fowler.

    Although I greatly doubt, that you even spend a second of your day on anything but yourself, or even deem reading this blog and comments something that might be vaguely interesting to you.

    In the event you do, or someone decides to tell you about what the'average American' thinks about your crass behaviour on TV, that was undoubtably viewed by more than half the world, based on the popularity of reality shows these days. You sir, have single handedly managed to prove to the world what the people who had the unfortunate plight to be in one of your British Colonies have been saying for time immemorial. You limey bastards are a bunch of inbred, stupid buggers. You have no values, no class, and no sense of right and wrong. You think that yours is the best way, after all its the Kings English, King Georges Bible, etc etc. Everything else and everyone else is common and of no consequence.
    You sit here in your cheap t-shirts telling the world that you are a brilliant person with an IQ of 154, but you honestly only seem to use about 1%of it, must be because of that lack of commonsence that comes from inbreeding.
    May I suggest, since obviously you will not have the commonsense to know it, that you take yourself and your filthy family and leave this country and its economy and people that has seen fit to give you success and prestige because you cannot appreciate what you have, and put your tail between your legs like the rest of the Red Coats we kicked out of here after we deemed them of like character and class as you.
    Oh by the way...last but not least...do not fly on an American Carrier, because I am sure the low classed baggage handlers on the flight will recognize your name on the manifests and bags and summarily lose your bags...You better fly on British Air on the way, they will be proud to take you back to squallid England.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:41 PM Kim wrote:
    SEPARATED AT BIRTH:
    Gene Fowler (aptly named) and Mark David Karr?
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  • 2/11/2009 5:41 PM John wrote:
    Wow. I just watched some "lowlights" of the Fowler's performance on "Wife Swap." Congratulations to Gayla! You did an incredible job. Did that creep happen to watch the show and see the shame he brought on his wife? She hung her head and covered her face. Rightly so. ... To think men died in wars for assholes like Stephen Fowler. You're pathetic, sir. Words fail to describe how pathetic, but you were right about one thing: Gayla is definitely out of your leage. I'm also impressed with her husband's restraint. I don't think I would have been able to sit across the table from you as calmly as he did. You would have gotten one hell of a spanking. The spanking your mother apparently never gave you.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:42 PM jack wrote:
    To say Stephen's behavior is FOWLER than most, is an understatement. It's this attitude he feels he must display that makes him an emotional and social pigmy. Can you say insecurity, boys and girls?
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  • 2/11/2009 5:43 PM katie wrote:
    I think this man is a prime example of mentality of middle/upper class Americans today. It is sad and makes a statement about the type of messages his age group grew up with in this country. Money, power, be better than everyone else so competitively, and yet put on a good show for church on Sunday and participate in charities and other volunteer organizations to keep that false image. It is a shame the producers of the program did not intervene sooner saving some of the pain and suffering the swap wife had to endure! And as for his real wife? Well, she is married to the guy and it would seem must appreciate him for who and what he is to remain with him. Birds of a feather do flock together...however, must have been a nice break for her to be in the situation of having some power of her own for a change.

    Let us hope this show and especially this episode opened the eyes of society regarding what we are and continue to become. Especially as examples to our children!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:43 PM Katya wrote:
    Actually, I went to an international school. You are wrong in saying that an expat community reminds you of "Tokyo, Paris, Buenos Aires"... but that's not true. Expat communities exist everywhere, in all decent sized cities! And international schools exist everywhere. Not only "rich and spoilt" kids go to international schools, that's a downright stereotype. In Europe, a lot of foreign companies pay for their employee's children to go to an international school, you don't have to be rich. My international school had around 60 different nations represented, how's that for "more diverse community in public schools than an international school" - sorry, that's just really stretching it. And in international schools kids usually don't just learn one or two languages, you can learn as many as you want, depending on the school's policies. Public school education provides that too, but does not provide FULL learning of one language, that's just impossible. So, overall, it seems that you are angry at the fact that some people have an opportunity to study in a different language, for the purpose of being fluent in it. This anger to me seems slightly ridiculous, and has nothing to do with the family on a pathetic TV show.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:43 PM Paul R. Hug wrote:
    This guy needs to be deported !! The
    SOB should have his bag slit and then shot at sunrise!!!We don't need people
    in the usa like that!!!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:43 PM Don wrote:
    I can't wait to read the most famous blog about that piece of shit Stephen Fowler....meaning the one where some under achiever totally beats his sorry fucking ass to a pulp.
    Bloody 'ell limey scum.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:44 PM kim wrote:
    Obviously I mean't Stephen Fowler.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:44 PM Sheree wrote:
    Jerk, asshole, wanna be, pretender, arrogant, manipulative, sorry excuse of a father and husband, someone needs to teach this pompous airhead what it means to be a REAL father and husband. He needs to get his head out of his ass long enough to smell the fresh air and realize life is too short to be such a rotten being! Appears to me he may be a bit intimidated by the female species and the only way he knows to handle that is to lash out and shoot out insults regarding ones weight and the amount of money one has or doesn't have. Well, I say blow it out your ass!!! YOU ARE NOTHING!!! And I bet if his kids weren't ashamed of him before, they sure as hell are now.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:44 PM Fuzebol wrote:
    What did Fowlwer say that was WRONG? You may not like it, but Fowler was absolutely correct in sharing his lowly opinion of middle american values. This nation voted for Reagan and Bush, voted for the funding of the Iraq war, consistently elects morons and has squandered it's position in the firmament of the united nations. The US consumer is the most loathed, derided, maligned, disrespected character in the world. This is no secret. Even corporate America has no respect for middle american values.

    Ford's Pinto was deemed Unsafe at Any Speed and yet Ford cared so little about Americans that it allowed children to die b/c it was cheaper than changing the plant.

    Dow Chemical, J&J, Thalidimide, Downcon Shield, Philip Morris -- the list goes on and on of "american" companies that lack any respect for American citizenry.

    The US leaders spit in Americans' faces w/ bald face lies. "There is no evidence of Global Warming." "The War on Terrorism." Hell, Fox News PROVES that the media HATES Americans, hates the truth. Heck GW Bush hates the US Constitution and has done more to undermine Americans' Civil Liberties than any actor since the BRITISH EMPIRE in the 1700s!!

    Please, get off your high horse and point the finger where it belongs. The Elite of this nation has NEVER had respect for the average working person. Whether they are trade unions, coal miners, factory workers, child laborers, foreigners, you name it. The US Govt has blocked every attempt to give average Americans HEALTH CARE. More people go bankrupt due to a lack of health care than anything in the USA. There is no safety net here. We have crumbling schools, shoddy infrastructure, jobs being outsourced to China and Mexico daily. And you sit here and tell me that Stephen Fowler is someone who is NOT telling it like it is? Stephen Fowler was honest.

    Take EXXON for example. $5.00 a gallon gas has sunk middle america. the cost of commodities has gone thru the roof. cars aren't selling. They have reaped tremendous profits at the expense of everyone else. We pay taxes to support the military -- the rank and file die to support cheap oil -- which EXXON reaps as its own profit. Meanwhile, people are losing their homes, dying in IRaq -- and yet they wave the American flag.

    Listen, if you are so stupid as to buy into the lies, you DESERVE to be treated like a mindless automaton and used a cannon fodder. I have ZERO respect for you and frankly, I support everything that Fowler said and stands for.

    The Average Joe Six Pack American is a liability. ANd the faster we sink him and his idiotic, fat ass, diabetic, obese, uneducated, wasteful, Hummer driving ass -- the better.

    Good riddance. Who needs you? The earth could do w/ a lot less of these people.

    Fowler is a hero for he told the truth. Which is a lot more than any of you belly aching whiners can do. Frankly, most of you are simply Jealous that you aren't as smart or wealthy.

    Too bad for you, then isn't it?
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    1. 2/11/2009 11:49 PM Natalie wrote:
      ...Word.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:44 PM Megan wrote:
    The amount of hate that I have for this man is so much that I don't have enough room in my body for it all.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:45 PM mike n wrote:
    Fowler reminds me of the little geeky kid that everyone (including the girls) beat up at lunch time. He went home crying to Mommy every day with his underwear pulled up in a super wedgie. So he directs all of his formidable mental faculties and aces the GRE and goes onto become the most repugnant human being I've ever seen or heard. I kept hoping for his sake it was at least partly an act, kind of like how Simon used to be on American Idol but I fear that it was all him. All for real. Wow what an incredible asshole. Renee seemed like a fairly nice woman, how could she stand him? And what's with the bumper sticker slogan T-shirts? They were laughable and made him look even more geeky and pencil necky if that's possible. But I guess sometimes there is justice because it seems like there has been major backlash from the public. And you know it couldn't happen to a more deserving guy.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:47 PM Matt wrote:
    Stephen,
    You are a pompous twit. The sheik San Fran elite, who find it cool to hate America and the people who built this country. I feel bad children are subjected to parents like this. He make Brittany Spears look like parent of the year.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:48 PM A. Smith wrote:
    He is the epitomy of the very heart of tree huggers & that is why we laugh so gleefully at his "city" ways. He lives in a world of "I wish". Wonder how many trees were sacrificed to build his house & his furniture? hmmmmm? Hypocrite - just like many others of his "sort". We can only pray that he will see the errors of his ways & stop judging the world around him. We can only be responsible for what we think & do. I'm thankful that he doesn't live around me!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:50 PM Cman wrote:
    He's a dick. French Dick!
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    1. 2/11/2009 5:55 PM Johnnyboy wrote:
      he's not French, and it seems to me that the two of you have more in common than you'd like to think!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:51 PM this is funny wrote:
    I'm proud that I WAS BORN IN AMERICA!! I'm QUADRALINGUAL and I attended public HS and public university and I wasn't even majoring in Linguistic!

    OHHHH did i mention that I DIDN'T go to PRIVATE BI-LINGUAL INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL!!!!

    AND YES FRENCH IS INDEED USELESS IN MODERN WORLD. ALL U NEED IS ENGLISH, CHINESE & SPANISH AND YOU WILL ROCK IN THIS WORLD!

    Stupid ass French wannabe.
    ***** owned *****
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  • 2/11/2009 5:51 PM nicole wrote:
    I don't know who this Fowler guy is. I did not watch the show that night, but I am upset at the asshole that he would talk shit about the U.S. military. I am an Iraqi War Veteran and it makes me so mad that I put my life in danger for assholes like that. Maybe he should take his stupid ass over there and he would know what it's like to be a real man. Also, I would like him to know that money isn't everything. I consider myself in the low-class of society and I think that I am the luckiest person in the world to see the things that I have seen.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:53 PM Meg wrote:
    Hey, just wanted to let you know that French is the second most used language in international business, second to English. So while Spanish may be more useful in a few parts of this country (probably not the Cajan community of Louisiana, or the North East that has major contact with French Canada however) French would be very useful in business.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:53 PM Fuzebol wrote:
    you don't have the guts to post my post, do you?

    b/c you know that i'm right. instead, you've allowed a string of pathetic, incoherent, violent and xenophobic profane vitriol to pass as political and social commentary.

    coward. gutless whimp.

    you suck and this lame site sucks.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:54 PM Jim Claflin wrote:
    It was obvious this man was a pretentious closet-case. What better way to be pissy
    and closeted man hiding in a marriage in San Francisco? He is confusing class with being queer. He needs some balls.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:54 PM Fuzebol wrote:
    What did Fowlwer say that was WRONG? You may not like it, but Fowler was absolutely correct in sharing his lowly opinion of middle american values. This nation voted for Reagan and Bush, voted for the funding of the Iraq war, consistently elects morons and has squandered it's position in the firmament of the united nations. The US consumer is the most loathed, derided, maligned, disrespected character in the world. This is no secret. Even corporate America has no respect for middle american values.

    Ford's Pinto was deemed Unsafe at Any Speed and yet Ford cared so little about Americans that it allowed children to die b/c it was cheaper than changing the plant.

    Dow Chemical, J&J, Thalidimide, Downcon Shield, Philip Morris -- the list goes on and on of "american" companies that lack any respect for American citizenry.

    The US leaders spit in Americans' faces w/ bald face lies. "There is no evidence of Global Warming." "The War on Terrorism." Hell, Fox News PROVES that the media HATES Americans, hates the truth. Heck GW Bush hates the US Constitution and has done more to undermine Americans' Civil Liberties than any actor since the BRITISH EMPIRE in the 1700s!!

    Please, get off your high horse and point the finger where it belongs. The Elite of this nation has NEVER had respect for the average working person. Whether they are trade unions, coal miners, factory workers, child laborers, foreigners, you name it. The US Govt has blocked every attempt to give average Americans HEALTH CARE. More people go bankrupt due to a lack of health care than anything in the USA. There is no safety net here. We have crumbling schools, shoddy infrastructure, jobs being outsourced to China and Mexico daily. And you sit here and tell me that Stephen Fowler is someone who is NOT telling it like it is? Stephen Fowler was honest.

    Take EXXON for example. $5.00 a gallon gas has sunk middle america. the cost of commodities has gone thru the roof. cars aren't selling. They have reaped tremendous profits at the expense of everyone else. We pay taxes to support the military -- the rank and file die to support cheap oil -- which EXXON reaps as its own profit. Meanwhile, people are losing their homes, dying in IRaq -- and yet they wave the American flag.

    Listen, if you are so stupid as to buy into the lies, you DESERVE to be treated like a mindless automaton and used a cannon fodder. I have ZERO respect for you and frankly, I support everything that Fowler said and stands for.

    The Average Joe Six Pack American is a liability. ANd the faster we sink him and his idiotic, fat ass, diabetic, obese, uneducated, wasteful, Hummer driving ass -- the better.

    Good riddance. Who needs you? The earth could do w/ a lot less of these people.

    Fowler is a hero for he told the truth. Which is a lot more than any of you belly aching whiners can do. Frankly, most of you are simply Jealous that you aren't as smart or wealthy.

    Too bad for you, then isn't it?
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    1. 2/11/2009 6:13 PM Lord Vader wrote:
      Theres nothing to add, I agree 100%.
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    2. 2/12/2009 3:52 AM peach wrote:
      I agree! Fat people in this country are not fat because they are poor. If you were truly poor you would be skinny for God's sake! All you need NOT to be fat is eat less, buy tennis shoes ($60-$100) and run around your house if your neighborhood is not so safe. Jump rope in your backyard.. List goes on. Also the reason you are uneducated is again not money. All of you have access to PUBLIC library! Use it! Read some books to your children! Read about history, politics, science, art etc. Stop watching TV! I do not even own TV. But I have a 10% body fat! My child is fluent in 3 languages! And I came to this country as a regugee with elderly parents and $100 in our pockets. Your own stupidity and laziness made you fat and poor. Stephen is right!
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  • 2/11/2009 5:56 PM Burner1 wrote:
    let's see now , being one of the under ed. and under paid workers in these united states which i served . i would not hesitate to say we can put u and your family in bankrupt court .by boycotting any of your business's or your wife's or any employer or sponser they may have till they tell u to kiss off......
    now lets see u at the un employment office . see being on the bottom of the pole doesn't look so bad . we can watch u fall from your high horse . please take all and buy a plane ticket home your breathing my air touchole.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:57 PM Lord Winthrop wrote:
    What did Fowlwer say that was WRONG? You may not like it, but Fowler was absolutely correct in sharing his lowly opinion of middle american values. This nation voted for Reagan and Bush, voted for the funding of the Iraq war, consistently elects morons and has squandered it's position in the firmament of the united nations. The US consumer is the most loathed, derided, maligned, disrespected character in the world. This is no secret. Even corporate America has no respect for middle american values.

    Ford's Pinto was deemed Unsafe at Any Speed and yet Ford cared so little about Americans that it allowed children to die b/c it was cheaper than changing the plant.

    Dow Chemical, J&J, Thalidimide, Downcon Shield, Philip Morris -- the list goes on and on of "american" companies that lack any respect for American citizenry.

    The US leaders spit in Americans' faces w/ bald face lies. "There is no evidence of Global Warming." "The War on Terrorism." Hell, Fox News PROVES that the media HATES Americans, hates the truth. Heck GW Bush hates the US Constitution and has done more to undermine Americans' Civil Liberties than any actor since the BRITISH EMPIRE in the 1700s!!

    Please, get off your high horse and point the finger where it belongs. The Elite of this nation has NEVER had respect for the average working person. Whether they are trade unions, coal miners, factory workers, child laborers, foreigners, you name it. The US Govt has blocked every attempt to give average Americans HEALTH CARE. More people go bankrupt due to a lack of health care than anything in the USA. There is no safety net here. We have crumbling schools, shoddy infrastructure, jobs being outsourced to China and Mexico daily. And you sit here and tell me that Stephen Fowler is someone who is NOT telling it like it is? Stephen Fowler was honest.
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    1. 2/11/2009 6:21 PM s. f. wrote:
      Go find Stephen Fowler and move to anther country then live happily ever after.
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      1. 2/11/2009 7:04 PM LAWL wrote:
        Actually you go somewhere else! Maybe the average IQ will be raised a who .000001%
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    2. 2/11/2009 8:59 PM Maveth wrote:
      What did he say that was wrong?
      I'm not suprised YOU have to ask.

      I realize that degrading a person based on income, intelligence, appearence, and health is nothing to someone who enjoys and frequently points out someone's shortcomings to inflate their own sense of self worth. I find it amusing when the same people make speeches about how wrong and corrupt everything is, and they all join liberal organizations to crush American values. To do what? Save us?

      The values and patriotism you and Foul Fowler despise are the same values that made us a free and wealthy country. Reagan saved the US economy and helped the lower class citizens become the middle class.

      The elite are the ones that want the lower class to remain the lower class, because if everyone could become upper class, elitists wouldn't be elitists. Nearly all those elitists claim to be liberals, because making handouts to the lower class keeps them in the lower class. If you give a man a fish, he eats for a day, if you teach a man to fish, he eats for a lifetime.

      They pretend to care about everyone in the lower class having an education, but not at the Ivy League schools. Only the rich can attend them. Then they make federal college aid, which only benefits the lower class, to attend the public colleges, not the middle class, which doesn't take into account that maybe more than one child in your family would like to be educated. For everyone else, the college tuition increases, so that eventually only the elitists can attend anyway.

      They pretend not to believe in Terrorism, because then people won't join the military, leaving the US no choice but to join the United Nations, who will stifle free America by insisting we follow the same airheads that sent everyone running for independence in the first place.

      You know what's wrong with National Health Care? Obviously not, since you mention the US Gov. is preventing it on purpose to bankrupt everyone.

      If you go to a country that has National Health Care, be prepared to wait in lines for EVERYTHING. You have to qualify before you get treatment. If you aren't horribly sick, you get on a waiting list. Maybe if you're lucky, the 90,000 ahead of you won't live too long. Everything is in short supply and they rate your level of need against some unreasonable standard. Even the medical staff are in short supply, because if they get paid like any other low class stiff, why go through 6 years of overpriced medical school?

      "Heck GW Bush hates the US Constitution and has done more to undermine Americans' Civil Liberties than any actor since the BRITISH EMPIRE in the 1700s!!"

      Bush isn't an actor, but I'll try very hard to assume you aren't a complete moron and you meant to say "President". Which Civil Liberties are those? The ones that say you can't call terrorists without having your calls traced and listened to? I haven't had any issues with that, since I never call Obama.

      Pride goeth before the fall.
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      1. 2/14/2009 1:36 AM Mark wrote:
        I completely agree with you. The arrogance of the liberals against President Bush is appalling. I went to an elite school and grew up around people like Stephen Fowler. I refuse to associate with any of these types in my adult life. It cost me business opportunities and country club memberships but I'm a much happier person and I treat people with respect. I also respect these supposed uneducated, fat and lazy Midwesterners and Southerners. They are the backbone of this country, the ones that do the work Stephen Fowler's weak body is obviously unequipped to handle. The Bush bashing is getting really old. Obama bashing is a lot more fun. He just sold our country out by going into debt to pay debt. Good job, Obama, Pelosi and Reid. Many will be changing their tune about this new clown in a few years.
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    3. 2/20/2009 12:18 PM Nathan wrote:
      Dude you must have no idea what is really going on in the world. Fowler was correct in some of the things that he did say but about 99.9% were what you called bald face lies. Why don't you get off your high horse and try to live like the majority of americans...make less then 100,000$ a year or try to work at a shity job like DQ or try to run your own. I have to literally work for a living and i only get paid minimum wage....you think im pissed off at america for putting me here...damn right but i make the most out of it. I don't really blame them for putting me into this position i blame it mainly on myself because i was born in a time where the economy isn't the best.

      WFT...there is no evidence of Global Warming or nothing about the War on Terror. Hell i got family that is over there and you are now saying that they are fighting for nothing or that they are sitting on there @$$ doing except sipping a nice cup of tea. The media doesn't hate america...they just can only publish certain content that the government allows.

      Before you start talking Bullshit about things that apperently you do not have any clue about....why don't you read the news are ask somebody that has more expierence in that field
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  • 2/11/2009 5:57 PM Someone with better things to do than watch reality TV wrote:
    While Stephen Fowler certainly sounds like a jackass, I do find it sadly ironic to read so many poorly punctuated responses defending the American educational system. How is it possible for anyone to get past the fourth grade and still not grasp the difference between a plural and a possessive? That's like not understanding the difference between "plus" and "minus" in math. Maybe some people should spend more time reading, and less time watching junk television.
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  • 2/11/2009 5:59 PM Mike wrote:
    The guy has severe problems and very low self esteem. I'm sure he was a bused as a child. Green? Oh yes. All his T-shirts say he is. That pair is a match made in heaven. How did they happen upon each other. I guarantee that there are no other possible mates for those two on this planet. It's a shame they were allowed to breed. Poor children!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:00 PM Wendy wrote:
    What a loser; Mr. Fowler needs to pack up and go back to England. There's nothing wrong with being happy with who you are. I felt sorry for Fowler children and how they're not able to be children. Shame on you Mr. Fowler! You and you wife are turning them into mini mes. There will come a time in your life; when you need the average person for help and they'll remember this show and instead of CPR they'll grab the remote control and watch Jerry Spring instead. You and your family should be asking for forgiveness from the big man upstairs.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:00 PM Linda wrote:
    What an arrogant PRICK. He needs to get on the first flight back to London and leave this country. Take his snobby wife with him.

    What an ass.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:00 PM Kathy wrote:
    How sad to think of the missed oportunities this experience could have provided to Stephen's children had he not wasted time trying to prove his superiority to himself. He chose instead to leave an everlasting example for his children of discrimination, prejudice and unkindness. Embracing the differences for a very short time and choosing the pros and cons of each situation life had provided for them would have been the way an educated, intelligent parent would have embraced this opportunity. Instead he felt defensive and threatened by the very person that he was the most critical of. Remind me again,"why he and his family applied for the show?" Did the producers forget to tell him that this situation was not permanent? Or did they apply so that they could show any american family, because they are all inferior to his, all the reasons why he felt that way? But besides that,"who encourages their children to be mean and ignore another as if they are unworthy?" He owes his children an apology for his embarassing behavior and he better hope that as they grow older they don't begin to see him as the sad, miserable bigot that he is. Perhaps choosing to keep his grandchildren from his influence. He has set them up to be pompous and therefore unliked. How sad to teach that you have to step on others to make yourself feel superior. Shame on you Stephen. It's time for you to go back across the pond!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:02 PM Ana wrote:
    Stephen Fowler is the most dispicable, low-life Non-American I have ever had the horrific experience of listening to. He made my stomach drop, my ears pop, and my mind go balistic. It was like watching a a human being pull apart the wings of a defenseless winged create. Mr. Fowler, you should be ashamed of yourself!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:03 PM Anonymous wrote:
    Well,
    I really hope I never have to save this guys life cause I really think I would let him die.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:06 PM Lord Winthrop wrote:
    ALL MIDDLE AMERICAN REPUBLICAN FAT IDIOTS deserve what they got.

    I'm glad they are losing their homes.

    I hope gas goes to $10 a gallon.

    I hope there is a draft.

    I hope the dollar falls thru the floor and stock market goes to zero.

    I hope the real estate market tanks.

    AHAHAHHAAHHAHHA

    You all suck.

    And you deserve it.

    And if you have anything to complain about, consider the IRaqis that you've demolished.

    You all deserve a lot worse than you got.

    If you get offended by a stupid TV show, then you deserve to be offed in a boiling chlorine mustard gas attack.

    Special targeted viruses that kill only people w/below a 100 IQ. We need to keep the ones that are between 100-125 to work at the gas stations.

    And pizza parlors.

    And as female escorts. WE can manipulate their genetics to get smarter kids out of them when we repopulate the planet from our Bunker at an UNDISCLOSED LOCATION.

    hahahahahahahaha
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    1. 2/11/2009 6:08 PM Rawr wrote:
      YOU ARE MY HERO LOL
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    2. 2/11/2009 6:12 PM Ray wrote:
      If We Go... YOU GO TOO HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
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      1. 2/11/2009 6:34 PM rawr wrote:
        You are a retard. Please go back to your basement.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:06 PM Gone to the donut hole wrote:
    You all are much too hard on Mr. Fowler...

    I spent 20 years living in San Francisco, involved in a host of business and community affairs at several levels.

    What you heard from Mr. Fowler was simple the public verbalizing of what a very large majority (70%+) of San Franciscans think of themselves and of those who are not "smart" or "lucky" enough to be themselves.

    The haughty, superior-minded, anti-American, anti-military hate-filled vitriol that Mr. Fowler filled the airwaves with is exactly how most San Franciscans speak when they think they are amongst their own. It is in their daily conversations.

    This poor guy got caught on tape, that's all. He probably still can't figure it how anyone can disagree with him.

    Can a liberal be called "out of touch?"
    Naw.
    Impossible.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:06 PM Byrdie wrote:
    He became an American citizen and wouldn't sing our national anthem as he finds it humiliating?

    Send him back to the UK!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:07 PM Rawr wrote:
    It's funny how people belittle him yet you should be looking at yourself typing on this blog. You are no better than the average wannabe craving for attention. Please get in line it's over here---->
    Public schools teaching languages efficiently? That's a laugh!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:08 PM GB wrote:
    Wow. This is not an issue of free speech, just a sad insecure little man. He is the kkk of academia. I guess if it were not for those mid western boys in the forties, his not so hidden homosexual tendencies would have come to fruition. He would now be a bitch for Hitlers Grandsons>>
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  • 2/11/2009 6:13 PM Amber wrote:
    I think stephen fowler shouldn't even be living in this country if he hates everything about typical american people. He's a stupid S.O.B and i hope he rots in hell for being that much of a jackass
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  • 2/11/2009 6:18 PM Josh wrote:
    Arabs ARE swarming into France. Hardly any of you have been there lately. The muslims actually rioted there in the cities like crazy not too long ago. Look it up for yourself. Muslims are a violent sect of people. If I am wrong then look at the middle east. Study history.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:24 PM Schratboy wrote:
    No need to be a jerk. Shut your mouth and do your work: being a husband and parent.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:25 PM Brandon wrote:
    Being an above average American. I am ashamed by the "average American". America is California and New York respectively. The rest of you slobs, are shouldered by our ability to generate massive amounts of income for the the 'square states' as I like to call them. Those states where the amount of 'corners' directly reflects the intellect quotient of it's inhabitants. Good job failing at life you fat pathetic troglodytes.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:25 PM Joe Fowler wrote:
    Here is the reported Stephen Fowler appology thanks to Google Cache.

    A Message from Stephen Fowler
    February 6, 2009 at 8:29 am · Filed under Uncategorized

    I hope you will take this as a sincere and unequivocal apology. I have been completely taken aback by the response my behavior generated and it has taken a while for me to figure out what to say. I’m not doing this to try and redeem myself. Rather I’m trying to try and undo some of the hurt that people have obviously felt as a result of my comments.
    Clearly I behaved like a complete jerk and I am deeply sorry for all the offense I have caused. I’m not going to hide behind excuses, I showed an extraordinary level of stupidity and arrogance. I will do my best to address most of the criticism directed at me. If I miss something out, however, it is not because I do not deem it important, it is just that there is rather a lot to cover.
    First off, let me say I am deeply sorry for the terribly insulting way I treated Gayla during the show. She is a very pleasant person and clearly did not deserve to be treated that way. In fact, no one deserves to be treated that way. I was a bully, and it was just plain unacceptable. Once again, I offer my sincere apologies to Gayla, Alan, and their boys.
    Some of my remarks obviously made me appear unpatriotic. Well that was just dumb. I chose to become a US citizen because I deeply respect the values upon which this great country is based. For the record, I think the US is an amazing country and I can’t think of anywhere I’d rather live. And while I do not happen to believe the Iraq war is a good idea, I do have a huge amount of respect for all the personnel who serve in the US military. They have the toughest job in the world and I am truly grateful for the sacrifices that they make to protect this country.
    I used gross generalizations about Midwesterners and I am deeply sorry for any hurt I caused with these statements. My comments were just stupid and made me look like the one who is undereducated. Some of my best friends are Midwesterners, which shows how truly dumb my comments were.
    I also deeply regret that my actions reflected badly on the environmental organizations with which I am affiliated, and were of disservice to the environmental movement as a whole. I’ve resigned both my nonprofit board positions and would ask you to not judge these organizations by my actions. I offer my sincere apologies to all the staff and board members.
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    1. 2/11/2009 6:38 PM Bill wrote:
      I hope it is discovered that you cheated on your taxes and have to serve time in prison. Hopefully the people you'll meet in the pin can teach you to show a little respect or pay the price
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  • 2/11/2009 6:25 PM 7331 wrote:
    You are all an enormous lot of mentally sub-par individuals. I agree with Fowler. Many Americans live stereotypical lives and never bother to ponder much less follow through on their full potentials due to fear and laziness.

    And who's the idiot writing the articles?

    "In fact, I bet you, if you your kids want to, they can pick up cantonese/mandarin or spanish in no time. Not just french. And that's a lot more useful."

    There is no logical argument here! Because people are capable of hearing a language, they will pick it up? I've been going to school around six major languages and cannot naturally speak all these languages simply because I've been exposed to them.

    This is disappointing. This proves to me that not only are the people in my own high school a bunch of blathering appearance-obsessed idiots, the rest of the country is ignorant in the face of its rapidly falling standard of living.

    FAILTACULAR 'TARDS.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:26 PM Joe Fowler wrote:
    Further, I regret that my remarks made me come across as a person who disrespects overweight people. I do not disrespect anyone for being overweight and I deeply regret that my remarks suggested I do. My wife has devoted her career to helping people and my comments reflect poorly on her and her heart-felt work. I apologize for my extreme insensitivity to her clients and her mission. Please don’t judge Renee by my actions.
    I also want to apologize to my family and friends and thank them for their support, which I scarcely deserve. I believe we can all grow from experiences and I will work to ensure this experience teaches me to become a better, more compassionate person.
    Finally I want to be clear that these are my words and I have received no input from anyone else, not even my wife. I hope this apology will be taken in the true spirit it was given.
    Stephen
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  • 2/11/2009 6:26 PM Jacob wrote:
    WHOIS.COM even gives his phone number out. The box is full, and it's his wife's number...


    Domain Name: boardseat.com


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  • 2/11/2009 6:26 PM thats just mean wrote:
    When did having an education make being rude ok.I am educated, speak three languages, exercise daily, eat healthy, love the military, and I'm proud to be an American. I have lived in more than one country and would not give up being an American for all the money in Fowler's bank. The lack of compassion for another human being is what is wrong with the world in the first place. You do not have to agree with someone to respect their basic right as a human being.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:27 PM Michael D wrote:
    I am wondering if Mr. Fowler realizes that alot of the organic food that he and his family eat, are grown right here in the place that he made fun of. MISSOURI! What a doosh bag.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:32 PM Joe Fowler wrote:
    wife statement cache
    http://209.85.173.132/search?q=cache:xB-10LDL970J:renee.personallifemedia.com/2009/02/06/where-i-stand-2/+/2009/02/06/where-i-stand&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=2&gl=us
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  • 2/11/2009 6:32 PM Tim Roberts wrote:
    After watching this joke of a man insult and dishonour that woman, I cannot stay silent. My name it Timothy, my IQ has tested around 150, though I believe the test is garbage and shows only how well you can take an IQ test.

    I come from a noble background, I am the eldest male heir of the Count of Schwerin in Germany, not like that means anything.

    Anyways, I would just like to challenge Steve to a fight. He is a pig in the lowest sense of the word, and the epitome of everything wrong with the world today. Words cannot express my disgust for this animal.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:33 PM Chris wrote:
    Fowler, you are a pompous, arrogant self righteous ass! If you hate America then don't live here, like you said, you have a choice. I was born in London and now live here, went to English private schools and the one thing I hated were the typical English, pompous stuck up a-holes like you, that loved to put everyone else down to make themselves feel better! Even if you do think our military is made up of a bunch of low class uneducated hillbillies they still have more honor and integrity than you ever will and they help protect your sorry ass. I am a doctor, but before medical school I served in the US Army infantry out of choice, I have never been prouder of anything else compared to my time in uniform, so your comments really piss me off. I would consider risking my license just to bloody your lip...and I wouldn't stitch you up afterwards! You are a sorry ungratefull sack of turd and you don't deserve to live here, let alone San Fran.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:35 PM Joe Fowler wrote:
    Stephen apology google cache
    http://209.85.173.132/search?q=cache:7y4wkdKbXbgJ:renee.personallifemedia.com/2009/02/06/a-message-from-stephen-fowler/+2009/02/06/a-message-from-stephen-fowler/&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=1&gl=us
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  • 2/11/2009 6:36 PM JD wrote:
    This dude sounds like he should order some mood enhancing and relaxation pills from www.Paramount-Supplements.com. They also have sexual enhancing pills because it sounds like he needs to get laid!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:37 PM Quentin wrote:
    Fowler move back to your own fucking
    country dickhead!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:41 PM robert wrote:
    forget all the language discussion. His wife wants to seek help. Hell, he ought to just do himself in but first see a dermo to have his ugly face sanded. The liberal shit ought to find another country to live in before he crooks. he iin.vndtoligistr ethis A
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  • 2/11/2009 6:43 PM Pat wrote:
    I'm an American of Irish descent, born and raised in the midwest. After seeing this poor fowl excuse of a human make a fool of himself, I now completely understand the IRA!

    In spite of my midwestern location, I somehow managed to get a few college degrees. So did my parents. Amazingly, so did many of my friends and neighbors.
    I have to admit I know many people who don't have these esteemed degrees and I like them just as well. Go figure.

    According to Fowler logic, if I am to really pull myself out of my apparant lower status put on me because of my location, I surely must separate myself and apologize for having 'unfortunate' friends and neighbors who went to work immediately after high school. I thought they were nice people who could hold interesting conversations, and also have fun with. OOPS. Wrong values- right Mr. Fowler?

    If I want to be valued at all, I must dismiss my firefighter son-in-law, and my blue collar friends and neighbors who work hard, own homes, READ, go to church, and are active in the community. They do all of these things because that is not just the midwestern way- it is the American way.

    According to Fowler, I must be ashamed of "our ways" in order to be accpeted as a suitable human being. hmmm.

    I am all for green everything, I volunteer and contribute to more than a few environmental orgs. I believe in healthy living, reading, and education. I love politics too.! Oh dear - Does this mean I'm a fish out of water and must move to the West Coast? phffft- right.

    I also believe in respect,fun,and well rounded living. I enjoy music, reading, nature, and vegetarian meals. How did that happen in the midwest? It's a miracle!

    As far as Mrs. Fowler goes- Who needs a life coach when you have Packer parties!

    If I had to live with or near that uptight, hypocrital, pseudo- intellectual, pompous, arrogant, dull, abusive, mean, ugly excuse for a human being I'd volunteer to be a patient at my place of employment - A mental health hospital. On the other hand- Maybe I should invite fowl Fowler to join in some of our good therapy options. We have some good behavior changing medicines as well.

    Glad to be an American!
    Pat
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  • 2/11/2009 6:45 PM Betty wrote:
    I knew when i saw this episode that it was going to tick off a lot of people (including me)I am not overweight nor poor nor in the military but that a*hole sure did get under my skin! I hate that man.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:45 PM KJ wrote:
    I'll gladly post his address, it's public information anyway, so I don't know what grounds he would have to sue. We should all send him a letter to tell him what a swell chap he is. Here it is:
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  • 2/11/2009 6:47 PM BandWagon wrote:
    Hello,
    I am the bandwagon! I'm what is popular right now and it's the cool thing to not think about what was said or anything else. Just hop on in because it's the cool thing to do!

    Watch the episode? Consider any points? Blasphemy! WHY DO THAT! HOP ON THE BANDWAGON AND ROLL ROLL ROLL!!

    People who: Need to rage on internet/ sillypeoplewhothinktheyaresmart / LOLPEOPLE / CommonAmerican(IQ 100 and down please) / And anyone else who failed to consider any logical points that Stephen Fowler mentioned! JOIN THE BANDWAGON NOW!! IT'S HERE AND SHIPPING OUT SOON!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:48 PM Benjamin Dover wrote:
    Get a life, for chrissakes. It's a TV SHOW. Fat people are disgusting. Fast food is bad for you. You people are pathetic and really need to grow up. IT'S TV. IT'S MAKE BELIEVE. The producers really have all you rubes worked up and drove their footprint, ratings and profile up courtesy of the lowest common denominator, people who watch this tripe. It is the 80/20 rule in application. You people just happen to be the 80 who are unemployed, fat, ditch diggers, losers.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:48 PM Ex San Franciscan wrote:
    Stephen Fowler is your typical San Francisco Foul-Mouthed Know-it-all @#$%. This is the personality which typifies the California/San Francisco Attitude. It's also why Californians are disliked, not just a little, but in their entirety, virtualy everywhere they go. That and many other reasons are why I left that Hell hole for Idaho 3 yrs ago. Idaho is a place where those type of idiots would definitely never spend a day much less an hour. Nor are they welcome. Stay home and speak french to each other you @#$%s......No wonder San Frncisco has so many problems. Since he was so stupid and braggd about having so much money, If I were the other wife, I'd sue his scrawny, miserble, tree hugging ass for abuse. People will say oh..Its SF is so diversified and come up with any and I mean any excuse for this guy. But I'll bet 10 dollars to a dozen doughnuts that he wishes he could turn the clock back to Jan 29th.
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    1. 2/11/2009 6:55 PM LAWL wrote:
      You make me /facepalm

      You are not only a hypocrite in this statement.... You take the award for ignorant american of this thread. Please from one "California/San Francisco" to another.. kill yourself.
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      1. 2/11/2009 7:00 PM Ex San Franciscan wrote:
        Thank you for making my point asshole...

        Oh I almost forgot....Stupid asshole....
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        1. 2/11/2009 7:24 PM LAWL wrote:
          You still here?

          Because you too are a CA/SF person, so I took offense to your comment about us being disliked. You are no better than this guy? Lulz please go back to your other forums... you FAIL SIR
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          1. 2/11/2009 8:42 PM ex San Franciscan wrote:
            Oh....poor cry baby....Offense to my comments? Sort of like the offense you reek of in all of your comments to everybody else here! Typical elitist coward. You dish it out but and can't take it. Why on earth would any idiot defend that asshole? Probably because they're an idiot.
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            1. 2/11/2009 9:51 PM LAWL wrote:
              Nah I was merely taking the view of everyone else on this forsaken place. Please hop on the bandwagon more kkthnx!

              LOL I dish it out yet you come back with crap Please! (INB4 EXCUSES)
              I'm defending the write to freedom of speech he was an asshole doesn't deserve the type of publicity from (a crap show I might say so) but yet you are a typical American that cannot fathom any in-depth discussion. So with that I will answer back to any of your crap silly little twit.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:52 PM Glory wrote:
    Too bad America started to go to be kingdom. The democracy is over if it was at all.
    The good thing this web page. Maybe there is hope... not in my lifetime, but there is a little hope to have democracy.
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  • 2/11/2009 6:55 PM sue lewis wrote:
    I think he should return to Britan, and perhaps even fall off the boat, about half way there. He doesn't belong in America and I would definately support donating for his trip back there. He is low, very, very low!
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  • 2/11/2009 6:56 PM John wrote:
    Stephen Fowler may be the rudest human ever but I think his view of Americans is fairly accurate. We need to stop eating so much, start working harder and getting a better education.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:01 PM Steve Varela wrote:
    F*** Stephen Fowler and his wife!!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 7:01 PM Denise wrote:
    I enjoy watching Wife Swap, however, Stephen's behavior was ugly, rude and mean. He had no right to hurt the lady in his home. If he didn't want to do the show, he should've said no. Stephen did not display any smarts, but rude, bad behavior. My heart went out to the lady in his home. Stephen's behavior made me almost stop watching Wife Swap.

    Thank You.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:04 PM a57moon wrote:
    I am just so thrilled that someone took up the caue of a rightfil and mightful majority. If but only for posterity, may I thank you....and chime in to say what a pity space was wasted on such a pathetic male. Even as a man, I have to bear witness to the fact that he doesn't rate such high standing.

    Others have exalted far better than I, the feelings of an outraged public. I only wanted to agree.
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:08 PM LAWL wrote:
      Please stop posting, or use that button near the [Submit Comment][Cancel]**OMG WHAT'S NEXT TO THAT!! IT'S THE CHECK SPELLING CONGRATS! NOW YOU WILL BE UNDERSTOOD AND NOT FAIL SO MUCH!!!!

      [Check Spelling] It works wonders.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:04 PM Kierstin wrote:
    SO many times I have wished there were consequences (and proper exploitation) to the daily rude and indecent actions commited by some people. This blog has finally done that to just one of the many horrific human beings on earth!
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:09 PM lawl wrote:
      Yes because it's even better to flame a person with anonymity! That makes you the better man right? Amirite? Have fun behind your keyboard and computer screen. Don't forget the sun exists.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:05 PM Gina wrote:
    Who ever started this website kodoo's to you... I can not believe the neve of this guy!!! To belittle a woman like this ( boy you gotta feel like a man) NOT!!! I give ***** for her putting up with him... To Fowlers wife, I feel sorry for you or maybe your just as
    rudeto people as he is.... UH maybe you should have never agreed to this in the first place, your IQ did'nt help you out here... <<<<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>> Idaho
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  • 2/11/2009 7:08 PM pamela wrote:
    Stephen, I found it quite ironic that all the thing you spouted were all the things that you were yet worse!! If you are indeed classy, educated, wealthy, etc. then you should be acting better than you behaved. You are an insecure jackass and out of touch with reality and your emotional IQ is zero!!
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  • 2/11/2009 7:08 PM Gina wrote:
    Who ever started this website kudos's to you... I can not believe the nerve of this guy!!! To belittle a woman like this ( boy you gotta feel like a man) NOT!!! I give ***** for her putting up with him... To Fowlers wife, I feel sorry for you or maybe your just as
    rude to people as he is.... UH maybe you should have never agreed to this in the first place, your IQ didn't help you out here... <<<<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>> Idaho
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  • 2/11/2009 7:09 PM Greg wrote:
    To. Fowler
    I would like to say that one of the nice things about our country is the freedom of speech. When a group of us disagree with the way things are ran or handled we like to speak up or protest well Mr. Fowler i think i can speak for the rest of the country when i say we should protest your ass. Also i feel i should warn you that the people that you call dumb or lower class are also the ones that will save your sorry ass from a burning building,car wreck or god forbid a cop save you from a mugging or car jacking. If i were you i would take your kids and get the hell out of our great UNITED STATES OF AMERICA before you become the osama bin laden.
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:19 PM LAWL wrote:
      Um I take back the Ignorant American award from the ex sf person and award you with it. You deserve it..

      "i would take your kids and get the hell out of our great UNITED STATES OF AMERICA before you become the osama bin laden."

      I lol'ed
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  • 2/11/2009 7:10 PM LAWL wrote:
    Delete comments? LULZ CRY MORE AT FREEDOM OF SPEECH!
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  • 2/11/2009 7:13 PM Charles wrote:
    Hey Steve, You know what little man. If that was my wife..I would hunt you down and kick your ass you little fairy.
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:16 PM LAWL wrote:
      Obviously you didn't watch the show. You would be beaten down with the verbal attacks that you would cry and run home. You sir, are the fairy.
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      1. 2/12/2009 8:51 AM LAWLisafag wrote:
        Obviously, all you want are replies.
        Who's the fairy now?

        lawlz
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  • 2/11/2009 7:14 PM Ben wrote:
    I think that you are misunderstanding what is meant by the "international" in what was described as an "bi-lingual international school." Sure the school sets out to acquire as many international students as possible, but the "international" is actually referring to the International Baccalaureate program that they offer at the school. And for the record, this school is not as exclusive as the Fowler's so readily made it sound, they make a big deal out of having students from all walks-of-life. In fact, roughly 75% of the students are on some sort of scholarship, and 100% are fully embarrassed by Stephen Fowler's remarks, I CAN ASSURE YOU... And how do I know this? I go there.

    Peace
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  • 2/11/2009 7:15 PM dorie wrote:
    We don't usually watch Wife Swap but did that night. Stephen was an absolute ass. He must be very insecure to feel he had to attack the other mother. He was a bad example for his kids & his country. He should be deported. We don't need jerks like him in America.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:19 PM VINCENT wrote:
    I do not think that this Mr. Fowler is real. He is too stereotypical and predictable (using his own words) to be true He is just playing the villain of the movie. That guy does not have any education, he speaks with his mouth full of food, he does not have any style in the way he dresses and his house decoration seems to be quite tasteless. Humilliating remarks like the ones said by Mr. Fowler are typical of an insecure person with obvious deficiencies about his intelligence and education. On top of that a really educated and serious person would not acept of being in a reality show. Come on!!! this is completely faked.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:21 PM Marshall wrote:
    I was laughing the entire show. People seem to have missed the entire root of poor, poor Stephen's issue... I can guarantee he hasn't sufficiently, adroitly, passionately and rhythmically laid down the proper amount of pipe in his wife since, let's say... never. It's plainly obvious. Any man on this planet who places his entire self worth on faux intelligence, education and fiscal prowess obviously has a miniscule penis, impotence problems and an acute fear of any emotional bond at all-- even with himself. lol Actually, now that I think about it, he probably doesn't even masturbate either which makes him exponentially dangerous.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:23 PM Kevin wrote:
    Ok, I am a college educated person, who I guess you could say has made his fortune, seen the world and all it has to offer. i have about 17% body. This is an indication of what I have achieved in my 39 years. I don't say this to be boastful, in fact I never bring it up. If you met me you would never even think of me as this worldly person. To me it is no big deal. I don't need to rub anybodies face in it. I was in the right place at the right time in my life. God has been good to me in many facets. Thankfully, I am secure enough in who and what I am that I don't need to brag or be boastful. I am secure in my manhood, and I thank my parents for raising me right. I really feel sorry for this guy. He has little man's syndrome and is just acting out his frustrations of inferiority. Mid-west people are world class good people. They will give you the shirts off their backs. The same can be said for people in the South. Little Stevie must have really been picked on when he was a child. I feel sorry for his wife. She procreated with a toad who is desperately trying to prove to everyone he is a crocodile. She is chained to this guy for the rest of her life. Normally I don't post on anything but this just struck a nerve. The left is full of people like this guy and we have just put one of these people in the White House. Well, gotta go and chop down a tree and kill a baby seal and smash some solar panels, ha.
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:30 PM LAWL wrote:
      Hi,
      I'm an uneducated person, who I guess you can say doesn't have a penny to my name, and has yet to see anything beyond my basement. I have 100% of my body. This is an indication that I'm alive. I don't mean to embarrass myself but I thought I would let you guys know. If you met me you would hate me. I'm very insecure in my manhood (It just doesn't keep up when I want it to ya know?)I really feel sorry for Fowler. He's really smart and just states mere facts with a view of his own.....(This space is for uselessness) Well, gotta go and eat dinner my mom called me brb.

      Fix't
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  • 2/11/2009 7:23 PM Dale wrote:
    he has no common sense thats all
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  • 2/11/2009 7:29 PM andy wrote:
    Open another blog with your name and publish negative things about yourself. Criticize yourself and not others. you're not better if you opened a blog just to criticize someone else
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  • 2/11/2009 7:29 PM Barry wrote:
    Well neither a degree nor an income are worthy of admiration - it's a person's character that is their measure. Stephen Fowler showed himself, time and again to be an absolute piece of human garbage, and his wife seems well suited to rot together with him. I felt so sorry for Gayla - she was a good person who was actually trying to make some positive changes in his household for his children, and accurately identified some shortcomings in their lives, and made sensible moves to address them. All she got for her trouble from that nasty, buck-toothed British fairy was more abuse though.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:30 PM ian wrote:
    i think stephen is one of the fuckin coolest guys i know, i think that fat bitch should fuckin choke on a fuckin whopper!
    lolz
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:36 PM LAWL wrote:
      Amen Bruddah Amen.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:32 PM prenups wrote:
    Stephen Fowler is hella cool, this guy fucking rules and they should just give him his own damn show. Wife Swap is a joke and a half and anyone who watches it does Darwin a favor, but Stephen Fowler is the shit. All of you are fucking morons and need to step away from the computer and put your dicks in something much more meaningful. Fuck off.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:35 PM prenups wrote:
    Just in case my previous entry didn't get submitted, your all a bunch of assholes because you can't take my honest opinion. Freedom of speech? Bullshit!
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  • 2/11/2009 7:36 PM Kenny Nwajagu wrote:
    i watched this episode, and i got really pissed off. Steve was a really bis asshole. This guy is a dumass bitch and really deserves a merciless beating.
    He just Americans and if i ever see him on the street, i will get it in the face.
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:38 PM Lord Vader wrote:
      cough average american cough
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      1. 2/11/2009 7:41 PM LAWL wrote:
        lol nah He doesn't speak english and uses lolonlinetranslator...

        NOT IN THE FACE MAN NOT IN THE FACE!!!!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 7:38 PM San Francisco Dyke wrote:
    My guess is he's referring to the French American International School, which is a great school, if you can afford it. http://www.frenchamericansf.org/pk12/

    I didn't see the episode(s) but LOVE the fallout! Anyone who is a tool who puts himself in this situation should be publicly humiliated Carry on!
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    1. 2/12/2009 10:40 AM paris wrote:
      could also be lycee francais in SF:
      http://www.lelycee.org/top_pages/index.en.php
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  • 2/11/2009 7:41 PM ilikepbandj wrote:
    Renee Stephens is just as bad as that British prick.

    here is a list of companies that have hired that idiot. I would make sure they know what they are paying for. AN individual who HATES being AMERICAN.. Whats more American than th GAP.. And some other fine companies. It says she lost her weight... so she was a fat ass also... she should life coach her way out of the country.


    Renée has developed her Inside Out Weight Loss program over the last six years and has run seminars and programs for companies including GAP, Oracle, NEC, General Dynamics, Western Athletic Clubs and Whole Foods Markets.

    As a behavioral weight loss expert, Renee has consulted with Weight Watchers International on the development of their Program. In addition, Renee has advised Weight Watchers on enhancements to their leader training and Program materials for members.

    Renée holds an MBA from the London Business School, and BA with Distinction from the University of Virginia. She is a Certified Hypnotherapist, Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming, Certified Life Coach and Certified Destination Coach.

    Prior to dedicating her life to Inside Out Weight Loss, Renée had a successful career in Marketing and International Business, working for companies including IBM, Sun Microsystems, and the former Price Waterhouse. She speaks fluent Spanish, and reasonable French and Portuguese, especially after a little practice!

    She is a fitness enthusiast and especially enjoys skiing, hiking, running and weight lifting.

    Renée is an inspiring motivational speaker, seminar leader, and coach whose focus is on creating positive and lasting change, from the boardroom to the beach.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:41 PM NY wrote:
    While I certainly don't support the Long family's confederate flag, I so against the Nazi one that should be hanging in Fowler's office. God forbid he get enough support to start his own eugenics movement against uneducated (sorry people who can't afford $40,000 to send their kids to school), stupid (probably including those with learning or mental disabilities; goodbye, third world countries), and overweight. Didn't hear his opinion on other races but considering what he's said... Wouldn't surprise me if he was for "putting down" the elderly, mentally disabled, and physically disabled.
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    1. 2/11/2009 7:44 PM LAWL wrote:
      Seriously did you just attribute this to the Nazi's?

      Really man? Morals? Really? You should really just die right now. Ok? That's not even funny man. k? Please stop posting.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:43 PM Tuwanda wrote:
    I am still in shock. He feels this way but he still lives in America. Why not go home where I guess there are no fat people. Who does he think he is? He makes my boyfriend look like a Prince. Thanks for reminding me What is Alive and Well and living in San Francisco.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:45 PM Jake wrote:
    The guy is a major douche he is not intelligent because an intelligent person does not insult there is no need to only frustrated little weenies like him do and is he legal in this country if he is not throw his bony ass out of here
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  • 2/11/2009 7:47 PM jenny perez wrote:
    What a horrible man! Gayle showed much more education than he ever did. Having money or a better standard of living doesn't give any one the right to treat a human being with such disregard. On the contrary, being educated such teach you that there are all types of people and to embrace the differences that color our country...that man should be sent back to his country
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  • 2/11/2009 7:48 PM Mike wrote:
    Maybe it's good that the children of Fowler are learning French. Just like all the French before him, he's pure coward.

    I'm guessing he sits on the toilet to piss.
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    1. 2/11/2009 8:17 PM LAWL wrote:
      Whether you're a troll or not. You deserve to take your horrible narrow-minded piece of worthlessness of a comment and leave this site you piece of sh*t. You are the reason why American's look stupid to others...
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    2. 2/11/2009 8:26 PM James wrote:
      As opposed to a brave chap like yourself who hides behind a computer screen? Btw, he is British, moron.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:49 PM Maura wrote:
    This blog is hilarious and right on point. I watched the show and couldn't believe my ears...thought it couldn't be real...could someone be that heartless?? Glad to see the public outlash!
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  • 2/11/2009 7:49 PM Stephen Fowler Sucks Big Cock wrote:
    I HATE STEPHEN FOWLER! THAT BASTARD AND HIS BASTARD WIFE PUT WORDS INTO THEIR CHILDRENS' MOUTHS AND MAKE THEM DO THINGS THAT THEIR CHILDREN DONT WANT TO DO! You're not letting enjoy their life!!! WHAT THE FUCK!

    Basically, their children are slaves, and the those bastard "parents" need some "life coaching" about parenting skills.
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    1. 2/11/2009 8:04 PM LAWL wrote:
      I didn't see one bit of unhappiness in their children? Who gave you the right to judge their parenting skills? Can I judge the way you were raised based off this post? Please drown in your arrogant life.
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      1. 2/12/2009 8:37 AM LAWLisafag wrote:
        LAWL!

        That's so f**king hilarious! Wow you say people are hiding behind their computer screen? How about you, dumba$$! You didn't see one bit of unhappiness?? WOW! It shows what your life is like! FAKE! Go LAWL some where else you are an excuse for a human being! Rot in hell mother f***ker, you don't deserve to live with your selfish LAWL ways.
        Oh,and please sir, don't drown, combust while you're at it. Karma's a b***h, you'll learn that pretty soon. Have a great day!
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      2. 2/12/2009 8:39 AM LAWLisafag wrote:
        LAWL!

        That's so f**king hilarious! Wow you say people are hiding behind their computer screen? How about you, dumba$$! You didn't see one bit of unhappiness?? WOW! It shows what your life is like! FAKE! Go LAWL some where else you are an excuse for a human being! Rot in hell mother f***ker, you don't deserve to live with your selfish LAWL ways.
        Oh,and please sir, don't drown, combust while you're at it. Karma's a b***h, you'll learn that pretty soon. Have a great day! kkthnx!
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  • 2/11/2009 7:50 PM Christina wrote:
    Mr Fowler is a sad, lost soul. He wears his insecurities on his sleeve and has to be the most selfish person on the face of the earth. His dislike of the military (selfless sacrifice) and overweight people (issues with self-image) are quite apparent.

    You can see the ugliness all over his face. What a sad upbringing this man must of had to be so cruel and inhuman with Gayla.

    My prayers this evening with be for the Fowler children.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:51 PM Sky wrote:
    What a little person Stephen Fowler is - both in size and substance. He is still the pathetic, insecure child in school who must attack and belittle others in order to garner the slightest bit of superiority.

    His wife Renee Stephens is, unfortunately, like-minded. Who else would marry and agree to bear children with such a callous, elitist snob whose self-worth is solely measured by the unwarranted wrath he inflicts on others.

    May the family of four promptly board a one-way flight for the U.K.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:53 PM Brent wrote:
    I watched this show and it was painfully obvious this man lacks the etiquette/manners/IQ he so desperately believes he possesses.




    ETIQUETTE is defined as: ... ceremonial code of polite society.




    POLITE is defined as: showing good manners toward others, as in behavior, speech, etc.; courteous; civil: a polite reply.




    In other words, etiquette is used as a way and means of making others feel comfortable around you. Instead, he used his perceived "higher education and perceived etiquette" to not only belittle and denigrate her, but also a good part of this great nation.




    It goes without saying if he and his wife are appalled by the United States, they are free to leave any time! I'm sure there would be a line around the block with folks willing to help them pack.




    I grew up in the mid-west, and I guarantee you, the good folks of the mid-west could teach this man a few good lessons about "treating others the way you'd like to be treated." Their good ole hometown hospitality is second to none.


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  • 2/11/2009 7:55 PM Chris wrote:
    I am currently enrolled in a public school where sure some kids speak spanish, cantonese/mandarin, or french. However only spanish, french, and latin are taught, and from personal experience I can tell you that the overwhelming majority take spanish. This does not by any means mean that the majority of the school speaks fluent spanish in fact you would be hard pressed to find even 50 students that could hold a conversation in spanish. Where as if you were to attend a "bi-lingual international school" then you would be taught core subjects (math, science, history, ect.) in a language separate then that of your native tongue. In turn presenting the student with a much greater chance of becoming fluent in a second language and creating a better understanding. making the reason for sending your child to a "bi-lingual international school" all the more reasonable. I believe that you are being prejudice towards these schools and the people that send their children to these schools just for the sake of venting towards this man. Also your correct theres no NEED to send your child to a "bi-lingual international school" and theres no NEED to send your child to a college like Harvard or Yale better to send them to a community college, hell why send them to college at all? Send them to work for McDonalds there they will cultivate great people skills, discover the culinary secrets behind the Big Mac, and learn math behind the cash register! Final thoughts the more money you spend on a service the better the quality and if you have the ability and financial stability to send your child to private school then why not?
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  • 2/11/2009 7:57 PM americandad wrote:
    Renee has a bunch of crap websites selling her bullshit plans for weight loss. she was an ADDICT... fake bullshit wannabe tart. Who buys this brand of CRAP she sells.
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  • 2/11/2009 7:59 PM Anonymous wrote:
    Not to defend anyone on this episode, but French actually is a useful language, especially if you want to work in business. Despite the number of Spanish-speaking countries, most international business is conducted in English (obviously) or French. Of course, if you want to work domestically or in the health field, it's kind of a waste of time, but still...
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  • 2/11/2009 7:59 PM Bob Frapples wrote:
    While I completely agree with Mr Fowler's arguments about education and obesity, he was very rude. No need to be mean. Convince others by setting examples.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:01 PM Citizen of the World (SF) wrote:
    With the shallow comment of saying that learning French is not very useful, one needs to step back and take a look at the rest of the world and understand that knowing French doesn't mean that it comes down to knowing a few words when traveling throught the airport. Knowing French opens one up to the rest of the planet out there, culture, people and hey-what do you know- international "knowledge", something that we as an American culture sorely lack. Spanish and Mandarin do as well, but with different effect. Enrolling one's children in French-American school is for those who DO NOT have a myopic reality associated with being "American". Comments like "No need to spend money on a private bi-lingual school" is fairly ignorant since one can spend MUCH more money on the plethora of other private schools in the City (Lowell, Urban, etc) for the explicit purpose of getting into Harvard, Stanford, Berkeley, etc. The purpose of French-American school is obvious for ensuring that one's kids do not grow up with a typical narrow-minded (um, mid-western, obese and ignorant) reality that is all too pathetically common in our country. If you haven't stepped out of this country and know how stupid we look and sound from the outside, how would you know?
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  • 2/11/2009 8:05 PM Mike wrote:
    I went to the American International School of Vienna, Austria when my dad worked for the UN. Most American kids were the same kids you can see in any U.S. high school. A few times, the kids of the ambassador acted like snobs and they were straighthem out by telling them we're an economic class in the U.S. and not like social class in Europe. we emphasized work experiences in the U.S>, In the UK, it is mostly educational experiences. Most British kids went to Vienna International School. they were quit the snobs when we played against them, like we're stupid Americans who don't learn German or traveled within Europe. they were wrong, man.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:06 PM Jack Reacher wrote:
    I originally wanted to be objective in my comments and as in most cases civil. This is the best I can do:

    This douche is your typical rat bastid from San Francisco which is no longer a part of the United States. This moron isn't worth the time I'm investing to type this post but I just had to vent on how disgusting I consider him to be. OK, that's enough time to spend on this loser.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:06 PM Holly wrote:
    It sounds to me like you're the very epitome of what you're trying to mock: self-righteousness. First of all let me clarify - I'm a born and bred American and raised in the south. But personally I was cheering on Mr. Fowler and his wife.

    You say:

    You might want to argue the usefulness of learning french but it is nice to learn a second language.

    Why learn French? Well I wouldn't expect you to know right off-hand, so here are just a few reasons:

    French is spoken as a native language in more than two dozen countries on five continents - learn more. French has 72-79 million native speakers and another 190 million secondary speakers In 2003, the United States was France's leading investor, accounting for 25% of the new jobs created in France from foreign investment. There are 2,400 US companies in France generating 240,000 jobs. American companies with offices in France include IBM, Microsoft, Mattel, Dow Chemical, SaraLee, Ford, Coca-Cola, AT&T, Motorola, Johnson and Johnson, Ford, and Hewlett Packard.

    France is the second leading investor in the United States: more than 3,000 French companies have subsidiaries in the US and generate some 700,000 jobs,
    French is the second most commonly taught second language in the world (after English).

    Why is everyone criticizing Mr. Fowler and no one criticizing the pompous, redneck, sexist, uneducated, overweight, ignorant, Mr. "America?"

    I would much rather be married to Stephen Fowler than the other husband! Like it or not, Stephen Fowler hit the nail on the head when he told us what is wrong with America. Too many Americans are just like the other husband and we seem to think it's okay because we're "patriotic".

    Too many people think that if you criticize America in any way, or suggest better ways of living other than the "American" way, that you are somehow a horrible person. Sure, I agree that Stephen Fowler could have been more polite at times, but he was right.

    The way this other family was living was so much more horrendous than anything Stephen Fowler ever did. Their children were dying from their diet, they were uneducated, and they weren't going to change without an intervention such as this.

    What's wrong with Fowler's kids? They're healthy? Smart? Had manners? Oh quel horreur! (That's French, by the way, but you don't need to learn it so I won't bother translating).

    So call me what you like, but too many Americans are stupid and lazy like this Missouri family's kids. I'd much rather be married to Stephen Fowler than the sexist, fat, stupid, ignorant pig that was Mr. Missouri.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:06 PM bob forapples wrote:
    My wife and I are frequent wife swap viewers. I would hope Mr Fowler did not receive any money for this show, if so I would ask that he donate his profits to charity because he is a real piece if you know what I mean. God Bless America!!
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  • 2/11/2009 8:07 PM digglesworth wrote:
    wow, i've just watch a few of the youtube episodes and shocked at what i've seen. both the sfo husband and wife are atrocious, the fact that the wife says she's not a proud american and by chance she was born here, who would say something like that? i live in sfo and nyc, i've seen these types before and never really bothered with them, but on national tv, truly amazing. the two deserve each other, i think that their lives will be forever changed from this and that the sf opera/symphony, and all their so-called elitist circles will shut them out.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:09 PM jeff wrote:
    HE IS A NARROW MINDED JACK--- GET THE HELL OUT OF MY COUNTRY YOU British S.O.B Narcissistic B------ IF HE EVER Disrespected MY WIFE I WOULD KICK HIS TEETH WRIGHT OUT OF HIS MOUTH. AND YET HIS WIFE HELPS OVER WEIGHT PEOPLE I HOPE SHE LOST A lot OF Business. SHE'S SOMETHING ELSE TO BE MARRIED TO THAT SELF CENTERED IDIOT. THIS IS THE HOME OF THE BRAVE AND THE LAND OF THE FREE.WHAT HE NEEDS IS GIANT TEXAS A-- KICKING.THERE NOSE'S ARE SO HIGH IN THE AIR THEY THINK THERE S--- DOES NOT STINK.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:09 PM Frederick Bee wrote:
    I do hope that no-one who has seen this show and read these comments believes that this man is typically British! I am an Englishman by birth, now a naturalized US citizen, also resident in California (at the warmer end). I love both my native and my adoptive country, finding much to admire and some things to deprecate in both. This man's obnoxious, rude, self-satisfied, condescending and arrogant behavior is a product of his personality, not his ethnic origin! There may even be a few like him born in the US. So please don't feel it necessary to insult "the British," your closest allies and the people who are most like you, in order to condemn churlish behavior in one individual.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:11 PM Anonymous wrote:
    the man is crexy and rude and since he hates americans and anyone who is different he can go back to where ever he came from
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  • 2/11/2009 8:12 PM GTO wrote:
    Both families have much to learn. That 15 year old boy from the midwest is morbidly obese. Paintball scholarship? They're undereducated "rednecks", but who cares? They're good hearted people. I just wish Stephen would have been kinder. He's the Simon Cowell of left coasters. BTW, I'm a successful liberal Californian who went to grad school. Fowler was just mean spirited. You don't convince anyone of anything by acting superior. Please don't judge all of us by the actions of one douchebag.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:13 PM Scott wrote:
    PEOPLE GET A GOD DAM LIFE, THIS TV NOT REALITY!
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  • 2/11/2009 8:14 PM Flo wrote:
    Having been educated in a public school system, I think it would be fair to say that NO student is going to learn another language asides from that which he is taught in the classroom just because his friends speak it. They may learn some spanglish, but I'm being sincere, you're obviously more likely to learn a language you are taught than just out of whim decide to pick it up from your friends. I do think it's more likely that you're going to learn a language if you courses force you too rather than leaving it up to an individual students choice. It's just unlikely, we're just kids...I've NEVER heard of anyone in my school having learned Mandarin from their friends. That's a language that takes dedication and study not just auditory skills.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:15 PM Ghost Rider wrote:
    May be this guy needs an good old fashion American ass whooping.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:16 PM Ana VS wrote:
    Stephen & Renee Fowler give a credence to the right-wing Republican concept of the elitist attitudes of environmentalists/health-nut/west coast bourgeoisie. This couple is a pretentious laughable duo pretending to be educated. An educated person is one who treats human beings with dignity and understanding. The guy is so unimpressive- I think people should look into his venture capitalist title. I don't quite believe it. And if I were morbidly obese, I would rather die under Jillian Michael's torture workouts than have her try to coax me to lose weight. Poor Fowler kids...they don't look like they have fun.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:19 PM Jon wrote:
    Mr Fowler needs to leave the U.S.A right now!!!
    And he and his wife need to go to the middle east!
    I am a veteran from the army and it is my fellow military friends who have given him his freedoms!
    How dare he insult every thing that America stands for!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 8:19 PM Hank wrote:
    SF public schools may be diverse, but that is strictly Tower of Babel diversity--very few ever associate with each other. The school that this guy's kids go to is one of the best in California regardless of his idiocy. I've known many fine children to go through there. As for the public schools, there is only one decent public high school in the City--Lowell and it's as exclusive as any private school. Having people talking around you in Cantonese isn't tantamount to diversity. I went to school in SF with a Cantonese majority, and very few would even share a conversation with any "white devil"--this is what my few Cantonese friends informed me they referred to caucasin students as in their native tongue.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:19 PM Leah from Silicon Valley wrote:
    I think it is kind of funny to think that they have an international private school in SF. When I think of SF, I think of a city that has a dirty downtown area, where Castro is the safest part, and it is 45 min north from where I live. I cannot believe how ignorant, immature, and arrogant he is. Yeah he apologized, but he is still a yuppie effin mo-fo. And his wife is probably the same. What is sad is that they participated in this show and he is an idiot b/c not only did he embarrass himself, but he humiliated his kids by going on that show and showing how stuck up they are just b/c they care about the environment and they are rich bitches. WHATEVER... if he is really from the Bay Area... he should have an open mind. If he does participate in non-profit organizations, then he should have a heart full of gold not of soot. I Hope he goes to hell.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:20 PM marian wrote:
    dear Mr. Fowler:

    You are a scum bag, you area disgusting human being
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  • 2/11/2009 8:20 PM SF sucks wrote:
    This is great! I moved to SF from the Midwest a few years ago for my job and have hated this place since to the get go. I have been saying the largest general population of jerks have all relocated to the Bay Area, with the capitol of jerkville being San Francisco. Thank you Mr. Fowler for providing proof to the world. There are a couple more hundred thousand like him all over SF and the Bay Area.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:20 PM Slack Babbath wrote:
    A big advantage of learning French is the opportunity to game French women. Contrary to American stereotyping, French women do shave (everywhere). They're also far more feminine than their American counterparts. It's unfortunate that the 60s women's rights movement went too far here in the US. It turned American women into p@nis-less men.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:21 PM Scott wrote:
    Are you kidding me? Renee is a hypnotherapist? A proclaimed self-help guru? How in God's name or in there agnostic good conscience can she even attempt to help others when she and her children are living under the rule of a FASCIST?? What a mess! Pity for the children who have been raised in this discriminating environment by an aristocrat who's comparable beliefs and values are right in line with the KKK and Hitler! Renee is married to a nut. Caveat Emptor to her patience; if she can't treat the patients in her own house how do you expect her to treat you?
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  • 2/11/2009 8:23 PM Preston wrote:
    I love this website - it is helping me to regain some confidence in the people of the United States.

    My hope is that more people will wake up and realize that Stephen Fowler's attitude pretty much typifies the east and west coast, democratic, establishment attitude.

    My question is this - if the east and west coasters are SOOOOO very learned and advanced over us midwestern hicks, please tell me why your states are the ones who are leading the country in all of the dire economic indicators right now - i.e. record decreases in home values, record foreclosures and record job losses while most midwestern states are far more stable.

    New York, New Jersey, Massachusetts, California, etc. - great places for sub-prime mortgages on overpriced homes! Yep, you guys are the smart ones, no question about it!!!
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:06 PM Pat wrote:
      Can you recall where George Bush is from?

      I suggest thinking before you waste our time with your senseless arguments
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  • 2/11/2009 8:24 PM So. Cal guy wrote:
    First off, apologies on future spelling error since i really do not care about that at the moment though i will fix some if i notice them.

    In California it is actually quite common to see people who are bi-lingual heck I am tri-lingual and know some rudiments of other languages as well. It is natural for us (and other states too I am sure) to be at least bi-lingual no matter what and I know many public schools do teach french in fact i think the more common languages that school teaches are French, Spanish, and German (and Asian languages like Chinese (mandarin or kanto) Japanese, Korean... you name it we even have Latin here. no matter what each language IS useful in present times as we begin to establish more communications with other nations. You just need to find use for the language in the job you do.

    just wanted to support some of the posts here showing that other regions are multi-lingual as well (does not matter whether it is private or public)
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  • 2/11/2009 8:31 PM Jeffy wrote:
    Some much opportunity for both families to learn and grow - squandered by a guy with a superiority complex.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:34 PM Mark E wrote:
    Just another observation. The Brits, along with many European countries, were bombed heavily. By Americans and Nazis. This is something that America has never gone through. The Europeans realized that they had to take care of each other and keep each other safe. Hence socialized medicine and education. However, Americans haven't acquired this yet and its still dog-eat-dog and with all the racial divisions, there is a bigger than ever gap between rich and poor. Our nation is more elitist at the top than any other, and we have lower and lower standards for education, a horrific minimum wage. This is the quintessential betrayal of America, from within,also called the betrayal of democracy, the revolt of the elites. Its a very scary, greedy, desperate time in AMerica. We can't fear change any longer or we will disappear.
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:09 PM Ben wrote:
      So, what are you saying--that you want to go live with Fowler in England. The issues you raise are important, but that should and can never excuse this idiot for his behaviour...why make excuses for him, or are you a hole worried about your money and your IQ as well?
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  • 2/11/2009 8:35 PM scott wrote:
    That's right Virginia French is "still" the "other" language in the U.N.and woman are still not allowed to vote in 1/2 of the world. Both inequalities should change. In today's global economy learning French is about as beneficial as learning some form of pig latin. It's a country of socialist misfits who lost their patriotism and identity 60-years ago! History refers to french as the official language of pacifists...better known as cowards. Hmmmm... I think I'll pass on the french lessons.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:35 PM Don Patterson wrote:
    If there is anything wrong with this great country, it's people like Stephen Fowler! Elitist snobs who think they are superior to everyone else!
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  • 2/11/2009 8:36 PM Amanda wrote:
    I think this website justifies everything he said about Americans. This is pretty much the epitome of something a "fat, retarded, American" would do. To start up a whole website and spend hours upon hours of your life discussing and being upset over some random rant some random person made on some random reality television show is just an utter waste of life. Please, get off of your ass and do something productive.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:39 PM nb wrote:
    I'm so glad all of this conversation is occurring around this guy. Really, I feel sorry for his wife and kids. Could you imagine being with that man day in and day out. GAYLA ROCKS! I hope she can shake it off and sees this site that celebrates her experience.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:39 PM Kat wrote:
    First off, I would like to say that I think that Fowler is a disgrace and an idiot.
    Okay, now on to what I disagree with on this blog. There is an ENORMOUS difference between public schools and international schools. I don't live in San Francisco, but from your description they are not tri-ligual. They teach many foreign languages, but that is nowhere near on par with what a bi-lingual international school will offer you. Bi-lingual schools don't just teach you the language, they teach classes in the language. Because they constantly speak to you in french and you must speak only french as well, you learn so much faster, because it simulates the way you would learn the language if you were attempting to learn while living in a french speaking country.
    I went to a public high school, and took five years of french there. A girl transfered into our school from an international school, and she was so fluent in french that she took one AP french course and then completely maxed out what we could offer her while she was still a freshman.
    So yes, that is the difference. It is extraordinary. And to be honest, if I could I would go to an international bi-lingual school. There is nothing wrong with wanting the best for your children. I think it is petty to resent that. Are you honestly saying that if you had that type of money you wouldn't want your kids to be as successful as they can be? And besides, I'm sure they have financial aid and such for kids that can't afford the school.
    I went to a public school, but that does not make me resent those who are more privileged.
    Oh, and as a last note, I would just like to restate that I hate Fowler, and in no way support him. I just have a problem with nit-picking what school his children go to.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:44 PM Paul wrote:
    Biggest dueshbag we ever let in this country!
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  • 2/11/2009 8:44 PM Alex wrote:
    just because a school is diverse does not mean that a student will learn all the different languages spoken around him. i went to a diverse public school were many languages were spoken and unless they were taught directly to the student then they would not learn it. and by the way just because the school is trilingual does not mean that every student learns 3 languages and i can guarantee that most students take only one because they have to and don't even try to learn it. parents these days are COMPLETELY blind to what is being taught and to what is going on in their kids life. you may think you know but trust me you have no idea unless you are a teacher at the school itself and unfortunately very few people really understand that. and even they don't even know what goes on sometimes. schools that are bilingual generally force the 2 languages to the point were you cannot get by unless you know them and usually have a much better education for the students to learn from. remember, public means everyone can go including people who don't want to apply themselves and drag everyone down with them because they disrupt education.
    sorry for the rant
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  • 2/11/2009 8:47 PM Ex San Franciscan wrote:
    Stephen Fowler bragged about making so much money. I sure wouldn't want the IRS to find out about this Overnight Sensation of an Assss Hole who maybe "Forgot to Pay" taxes and finds himself in Hot water. Could he be aiming for an Obama Cabinet position?
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  • 2/11/2009 8:53 PM Dr. J wrote:
    What is very interesting is that the pperson that was the mean person is the "educatted, environmentally conscious liberal" while the victim is a midwestern mom from a conservative demographic background. I hope everyone makes note of that.
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  • 2/11/2009 8:55 PM Jason wrote:
    I think it's terribly sad that we, as a society, worry about this piece of garbage. What about un-employment,the war, the budget, housing market, health care, etc.?????
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  • 2/11/2009 8:57 PM Debby wrote:
    I was watching the subject Wifeswap episode with my 10 year old daughter - and we were both shocked by this father's behavior toward the guest wife in his house. Unbelieveable! People who act with this complete disregard for other humanbeings - are seriously messed up and need counseling. I am sure this poor excuse for a man has some type of diagnosiable mental condition. And at the very end of the segment - his wife actually seemed to condone his behavior! What kind of a life coach would marry a man like that? One the one hand allegedly trying to improve the lifes of others through her job as a life coach - while on the other hand living with such a horrible person who mistreats other people...Not to mention his obvious hatred for all that America stands for....I am glad that others voiced their concern over this jerk's behavior! We are all appalled - and really feel for the wife that was so senselessly attacked!
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  • 2/11/2009 9:01 PM b wrote:
    I just heard about this guy today. he is disgusting. san fran, england, all of the above should be totally embarrassed by this guy. he is the culmination of all that is wrong and evil in the world.
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  • 2/11/2009 9:03 PM Ben wrote:
    Stephen Fowler and his wife are not educated. They may know a list of facts, but they are quite ignorant people. They are also far from true wealth both in regard to money and spiritual qualities. They are ruining their children---not because they make them work, but a man who can insult a woman like that in front of their children and laugh is creating in his boy a wife-beating monster. In fact, I'd wager Fowler has struck his wife---something she hides. The inhumanity of his actions in fron tof his children leads me to want to see them taken from the home. Anyway, it seems the whole world has rejected this guy, so what more is there to say---but if you ever wanted confirmation that there are jerks in the world--its Fowler.

    Fowler and the rest of us should remember that money, education, intelligence, work ethic and all these things are not what defines the human spirit. What does it mean to be human? Does Fowler think he is better because of money and brains. Idiot! Compassion and the capacity to love and see beauty in differences makes the human, human, and Fowler has scraped the bottom of that barrel. Indeed Fowler is subhuman. He is like a monkey with lots of banannas. Anyway--teach your children to be nice and polite--I'd rather live in a poor uneducated world of nice and polite people than be in a world of rich educated meanies. Something tells me though that Fowler would rather be rich and smart with a heart of mean spirited anger that to know the simple pleasures of love and kindness in the absence of any worldly measures.

    Lastly, how did such a small boy, damaged and hurt by his unloving mother, get into such a big body named Stephen Fowler.
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  • 2/11/2009 9:05 PM BasalSkull wrote:
    I believe Gayla did something to get under Fowlers skin that didn't make it on the show. I also believe the lack of restraint in his responses reveals his true station. While the execs of this show just hit a jackpot they'll be trounced if they play this hand again. Wishing his kids the best..
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  • 2/11/2009 9:07 PM kh123 wrote:
    I'm guessing you stopped moderating the comments.... Shame on you. Look at some of the vile crap you have allowed to be posted here
    "James wrote:
    Sounds like he needs to be raped !".....
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:13 PM Ben wrote:
      Yeah--that comment that he needs to be raped is a bit vile----but honestly, the chances are good that he was raped as a child, probably by his mother. Fowler needs thereapy folks--not your hate. He is a poor boy who was abused by his mom. To suggest he needs to be raped is terrible.
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  • 2/11/2009 9:11 PM Black wrote:
    I dont understand why everyone is making a big deal out of this... I have watched the ep in question and I find nothing offensive. You people need to grow up and stop finding everything offensive.
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:24 PM Ben wrote:
      So--let me guess, Black is:
      a) Fowler himself
      b) Fowler's mistress
      c) Fowler's mom (you did a bad job)
      d) Fowlers Kids being forced to write here
      e) Another child abused jerk like Fowler
      f) A jokester


      But don't worry Black--we all love you too---welcome to humanity
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  • 2/11/2009 9:13 PM bu wrote:
    Poor Stephen Fowler... the victim of himself and the power of internet... amazing...
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:39 PM kh123 wrote:
      Most sensible thing posted in the entire comments.....
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  • 2/11/2009 9:14 PM barb wrote:
    this guy was a snobbish rude ass that thinks he is better then everyone one else. he needs to be sent back to the country he came from, Americans go through enough crap and should not have to deal with or allow people like him here in the USA if you dont like us get out
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  • 2/11/2009 9:17 PM Ben wrote:
    Its pathetic to suggest that Fowler should be raped. Thats awefull. It is likely that he is already a childhood rape victim at the hands of his mother. Fowler needs thereapy, not hate.
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  • 2/11/2009 9:20 PM Ben wrote:
    Bu--he is not victim of the internet, or the TV show--he is a victim of himself and he put himself on TV and the internet. Don't blame the internet. Fowler is the creator of all of his own problems and dilemas--if you want to blame the internet, then you should also point out that Fowler is the victim of his own mom and dad and his wife as well....but where does it end...also where it begins, with himself...only Fowler is to blame for any troubles he has.
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  • 2/11/2009 9:23 PM Angela wrote:
    Fowler is a classic text book cluster B narcissistic personality. They feel superior when they have the opportunity to belittle people. They feel that they are entitled to do so because they feel they are above everyone else. I am glad that it cost him professionally, maybe this will be a small lesson on how his disorder affects people. It is a small lesson to him because even though he lost contacts, it will not be enough because he will still feel that he was right to belittle that woman. He is proud of himself no matter what happens. They are just toxic people and a person just has to shake their head at them and move on.
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  • 2/11/2009 9:23 PM Proud Republican wrote:
    Please remember, even Indiana voted for Obama. Heh. And they NEVER vote for the democrat! America hated the repukes SO badly that they voted in a guy with the middle name of Hussein. Not to worry though, very little chance of the price of Skoal going up, cons. There will still be plenty of wrestling on TV as well. So sit back, relax and let the adults run the show.
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  • 2/11/2009 9:23 PM Olinka wrote:
    Stephen is a fucken narcissistic British,arrogant and contemptuous.If he thinks is so good and cultivated. Why he dont live in London. Ah!! of course he make his money here......in United States.
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  • 2/11/2009 9:23 PM Meeh wrote:
    I think this couple are one of those who needs therapy on their own! They are both not right in their heads to think that they were so great and above of all. Pity to gain a 15 minute of fame just to show your true self in front of everybody else. This is one of the reason i dont want to watch reality tv because of Idiots like these who would do anything just to get fame and money! If they're so damn great why are they here in america and joining wife swap show? FAME maybe it could not be money coz Fowler talks as if he gets tons of it already. They did get fame alright! just what a way!?! tsk! tsk! tsk!
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  • 2/11/2009 9:25 PM josh wrote:
    Renee Stephens Dislikes the United States of America, She is a Joke and Thinks no one is above her. She cant even clean her own house. Why does she let her stupid non american loving husband drive a 10 year old mini van by Dodge, When they are a green family? Why burn fossil fuel? She is a lier and is so full of her self and has no time for her children who dont want to do half of the things the parents ask of the kids as seen in the "wife swap " tv show. The idiot foul mouth idiot husband who has a mens IQ of 140 cant understand basic kindergarten rules, be nice to your neighbor, don't hit and share! These people think everyone else is below them. The president of the United States Of America, Should call the Fowler / Stephens just to say, Your visa or citizenship has been revoked for 120 days and due to your non American love for this Country you need to leave the Us until you can understand why we fight to be an American and the great love and strength people share for our land that you dis approve of and don't give a darn about. ZTime for both of them to leave this country and go home to his country and take his homelands peoples money. They need to stop taking Americans money and stop relying on USA citizen's to pay for there $40,000 elementary school. The old saying, If you don't like America, Get the Hell out!
    These people are 2 french frys short of a happy meal. They are so far up there colon, they don't see whats really important. If Stephen is a member of Mensa. Does he not understand how film and tv work. You are recorded being a tool and then 30 to 60 days latter its aired on national tv for millions of Usa loving Americans to watch these idiots make complete tools of them selfs. And I use the word tool nicely for them. I'm sure there are some rude verbs that i can use to describe them better but lets keep this clean and green. I would rather have Michal Vic live in San Francisco / USA then Stephen Fowler and his idiot wife Renee Stephens
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  • 2/11/2009 9:26 PM Pacific Heights wrote:
    A few things I noticed while reading some of these comments:

    the conservative leaning posts are fraught with bad spelling and grammatical mistakes. The second thing - Rush Limbaugh is a chunky junkie.
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:32 PM kh123 wrote:
      lol
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  • 2/11/2009 9:29 PM Peter wrote:
    Can't we just ship his ass back to the UK? Maybe the IRS needs to review the last years of his taxes..since he makes more in one week than commoners make in a year!!!
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    1. 2/11/2009 9:58 PM LAWL wrote:
      Can we ship you away? Because you do nothing but post something that's been said over and over. nEd mOAr materiuullss kkthnx
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  • 2/11/2009 9:50 PM botbot wrote:
    I agree with a few things that Mr. Fowler said about America and Education. I don't like the American Military (I don't live in America), Education is important and with better education you have a better chance of finding financial stability.

    But I think that Mr. Fowler has a rotten personality, not all Americans are the way Mr. Fowler described (I have a few American friends) and no one has the right to look down on anyone and humiliate them on National TV.

    This just goes to show that money can't buy class, personality and manners and I pity his poor children if they grow up just like thier father.
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  • 2/11/2009 10:03 PM An Average American wrote:
    Would somebody from middle America please go over to this guys house and kick the living shit out of him! I did not see the show, but he needs to be taught a lesson and he needs to know that he cannot insult Americans and expect to get away with it.
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  • 2/11/2009 10:18 PM Margaret wrote:
    Stephen's arrogance is incredibly puzzling. A man so taken with himself, but doesn't have the good sense to know that one's smile is often the first thing a person looks at? Ahem, you may want to polish yourself up a bit Stephen. :o)
    I currently live in Missouri, a St. Louis suburb, raised on the east coast though. I'd be more than happy to educate Stephen a little on the citizens of our country. There are rednecks and white trash all over this country darling, and your beloved city is, quite sadly, swarming with them. Certainly this is due to these individuals being bestowed with actual paychecks for being homeless, ha! It's no wonder that on the occasions I've visited SF, I've noticed a greater proliferation of these creatures each time I've visited. Something tells me that once enough people have seen his deplorable behavior on the telly, he may choose to collect that paycheck one day himself lol, rather than trying to dodge the mental darts coming at him from disgusted human beings everywhere he goes.
    I've got two sons in college, one on scholarship for baseball (starting pitcher, school anonymous for obvious reasons), the other on academic scholarship at IU Bloomington, Hutton Honors College, etc. We've raised our sons to be high achievers, as apparently Stephen is aspiring to with his own, but we also place far, far greater importance on their generosity in this world. We are especially proud of their excellence in conversational skills, manners and treating the secretary, the janitor, the overweight person with dignity and respect.
    Good Lord, I feel so incredibly sorry for this man who believes that a person's geographical location and bank account constitute their personal worth. Could it be that Stephen is running from his own karma, since he coddled his glass of wine throughout the entire episode like an infant's pacifier?
    Finally, we do not expect everyone to make the choices we've made in life, but we felt convicted to downsize our home and lifestyle 4 years ago. Since we try to live philanthropically and are driven by community service, we simply felt hypocritical to live somewhat ostentaciously. I suggest that if Stephen is choosing to be grandstanding with his wardrobe of basic black tees, that he consider retiring his bidet of conspicuous and highly frivolous water consumption (news flash: it doesn't exactly clean a person's bum properly anyhow!), and also consider just how bourgeois the discussion of one's income is to those who truly DO have some refinement.
    And those poor children. There wasn't a moment really, that they didn't appear to be a pebble in his shoe.
    Stephen, wake up man!
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  • 2/11/2009 10:21 PM Adoulfas McKinnon wrote:
    Hello every one, well I normaly do not watch reality shows but this one caught my eye. As I was scanning google for something or another this name poped up, Stephen Fowler and the name was accompanied by a swarmy snot nosed man who has been given the tittle of the worst husband on earth. Was this guy a celebratie, was he some aristocrate so I clicked as many of us do. What befell my eyes as I read made me some what smirk. A man who considers himself and his familie to be people of the world, compasionates for the "Common man" a person who wants to enlighten America. I thought ok so this man is another socialist who, like many socialists these days do describes themselves as liberal. Well Mr Fowler you are not liberal, and since you are so found of relating to Mr. Webster let me remind you Stephen, oh wait let me refraise that so that you can feel like you are a true american citizen, Dick, I mean after all us common folk of America do not like to use big formal names like the grand Brittish do. So Dick let me remind tyou and youre familie as to what Mr. Webster referes to as the term liberal and I qoute (from two of the definitions) 5: broad-minded ; especially : not bound by authoritarianism, orthodoxy, or traditional forms
    6 a: of, favoring, or based upon the principles of liberalism bcapitalized : of or constituting a political party advocating or associated with the principles of political liberalism ; especially : of or constituting a political party in the United Kingdom associated with ideals of individual especially economic freedom, greater individual participation in government, and constitutional, political, and administrative reforms designed to secure these objectives.
    synonyms liberal , generous , bountiful , munificent mean giving or given freely and unstintingly. liberal suggests openhandedness in the giver and largeness in the thing or amount given . generous stresses warmhearted readiness to give more than size or importance of the gift . bountiful suggests lavish, unremitting giving or providing . munificent suggests a scale of giving appropriate to lords or princes .
    Now Mr and Mrs Dick Fowler, obviously you are of the bouswa sect of life, tyhe snottiness socialists who beleive that you are better rthen the common man and that you think anyone who may not be green friendly and who are not part of youre sect of life meaning they do not make above $100,000.00 a year should not even be in the same citi block radias as you. Mr and Mrs Fowler you and disgraceful to the term Liberal and to any decent families in San Fransisco. It was the qoute un qoute comonman that kicked the Brittish out of America and we would do it again despite the diffrences of Aemricans today.
    So in clossing Mr Dick fowler I salute to you as the greatest pin head of them all.
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  • 2/11/2009 10:26 PM Dan wrote:
    I didn't see the show. And a lot of the commentaries state this as well.
    However: shut up. This person has the right to do what they will and they don't have to answer to any of you people. Of course he is ignorant to other economic environments-- he's rich. And he didn't get rich by watching WifeSwap all evening. For whatever reason he joined this show is irrelevant: he is an idiot. What is not true is that he doesn't care about his kids. Even most rich people don't waste their money, and they could spend it on homes, jets, and luxury cars. At least this man is utilizing his fortune to send his children to a prestigious school. And for all of those ignorant people, French is an INTERNATIONAL language. Cantonese is not. And having attended public high school myself, you don't learn Spanish or Cantonese or Mandarin from simply lingering around fluent speakers. Idiots.
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    1. 2/11/2009 11:07 PM Dinka wrote:
      U Idiot. For your information, cantonese is not a language. Mandarin is. And French is not an international language as it is not used to communicate all over the world. Only English is the international language.
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      1. 2/12/2009 4:42 AM Daneil wrote:
        Aw sad. If you're going to correct someone it's best to know if your correction is actually factual in the first place. Cantonese IS a language.
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      2. 2/12/2009 5:34 AM Gunther wrote:
        K Dinka, since we are going to be calling names (you ignorant dumb ass), mandarin is as much of a language as Cantonese could be. They are BOTH dialects. The word "mandarin" means literally "northern dialects".The term Mandarin refers to a diverse group of Mandarin dialects, where "standard mandating" refers to the dialect spoken in Beijing. Secondly, French is an international language, it was the language of diplomacy until the latter part of last century when English substituted it, due to the US economical and political global influence.French is an official language in 29 countries, it is an official language (of six) of all United Nations agencies and a large number of international organizations and in the European Union 69 million people claim to speak it as a SECOND language, which makes it the third most spoken second language in the Union, after English and German. In terms of number of people speaking a language, English is ranked 4th, after Mandarin, Hindustani and Spanish. So English is NOT the ONLY international language. You are right in a sense, It might be more useful to speak English than French when traveling or doing business internationally, but than just depends where you are going and in which side of the pond you are standing (do you speak a second language?, if not you better learn an international one!!!). Au Revoir, 再見, Auf Wiedersehen, Adios, Adeus, Ciao, Good Bye.
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      3. 2/12/2009 5:52 AM Joe Schmo wrote:
        You're showing your ass, moron. Although Cantonese and Mandarin share the same character system, they are distinct languages - as different as French and Spanish, for example.

        French is most definitely used as an INTERNATIONAL language to communicate, primarily among former French colonies.

        Would you like me to correct you on anything else?
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  • 2/11/2009 10:29 PM Rebecca Moneymaker wrote:
    Mr. Fowler is so lucky I wasn't the wife that swapped places. I would have knocked him flat on his ass. I am a 44 yr old female Navy veteran and I would have been happy to do the job!! Talk about PR and Ratings!! Proud Sailor and Educated Redneck Woman in Texas!!
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  • 2/11/2009 10:33 PM Latin American in TX wrote:
    I wonder how this idiots wife can live in that household with this guy! Seriously! YOU DIVORCE THIS Weirdo! and save yourself and your kids! because honestly they are going to grow adults blaming you and hating him! I fear for you all!
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  • 2/11/2009 10:35 PM Ceres3081 wrote:
    Here in the Twin Cities, which I am very proud to say boasts some of the most intellegent individuals in the Mid-West (Target Corp, Gen Mills, Ecolab, Medtronic, RedBrick Health, etc. et. al) his behavior would be considered domestic abuse and would be prosecuted as such. The media needs to pick this up and run with it. My sincerest desire is for his wife to lose all of her clients, and he lose all respect in the VC world so that they get to see first hand what happens when we proud Americans decide that you're kind is not welcome here. May the California Department of Family Services and the IRS dig deep into their lives for a good long time.
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  • 2/11/2009 10:36 PM Too Smart for Idiots wrote:
    AMEN SISTER, AMEN! Couldnt be said any better. They shall reap the seeds they are sowing. And like a dummy .... he just destroyed his wife's income!!! IF I were her, I'd dump the jerk and find me a nice handsome cowboy who would treat her like a woman and love her children like they are worth something! These idiots should be arrested for child abuse!!!
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  • 2/11/2009 10:57 PM AJ wrote:
    Wow, I never though Wife Swap would ever receive this kind of attention. It was a good thing that the woman wasn't from the South- she'd probably wouldn't have been able to step foot in the house!
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  • 2/11/2009 11:20 PM 9 Mos Prego Waitin To Pop wrote:
    I think i know why stephen fowler and Renee were judgemental, assholes.. BECAUSE THEY NEED SOME MCDONALDS OR SOMETHING. it could be possible that all that grass and shit they eat gave them a disease or something. who knows, maybe thats what causes mad cow disease or something

    When His Wife Is Cumming, Does She Yell “THE BRITISH ARE COMING THE BRITISH ARE COMING?

    im Not Fat. Im Pregnant<3 and I FRIGGIN LOVEEEE SNACK CAKES. TWINKIES ARE THE SHIT . Im glad to not be super skinny. i used to be anorexic. and i think that thats bullshit that stephen would talk shit on fat people, when if its something that his wife totally believes in, youd think hed support her. and by making that comment hes not supporting her or her business. i bet he was a fat kid. too bad noone has any kiddie pictures of him. he thinks everyone should be sent off to boarding schools, have no fun, and perhaps look like all the models who’s ribs and backbones show. thats real mature i wonder if he knows, and his wife knows, BOOBS ARE FAT. not muscle. so she’s got a little fat on her too. and if shes really that great at helping people lose weight, she’d know that its actually healthy to have some food with fat in it. it’s not healthy eating like a fucking rabbit or a bird. you DO need fat.

    oh and btw, he acts like fun is overrated, but you know he had to have had fun fucking her to get her pregnant. who doesnt have fun?
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  • 2/11/2009 11:51 PM Natalie wrote:
    I agree that Stephen's actions were despicable, but I just want to say I graduated from the said school last year, and I just want to assure you we're not all assholes like him. Although he did a pretty good job of giving us a horrible name.
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  • 2/12/2009 12:01 AM wg wrote:
    I was just reading up on Stephen Fowler and I went to check out his wife's business webpage.

    Guess what - - I found a mistake. This is the blurb with the mistake on his wife's webpage:

    Membership is free and automatically registers your for weekly conference calls focused on motivation, weight management, and nutrition and exercise.
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  • 2/12/2009 12:15 AM RealSanFranciscoNative wrote:
    Can I just say, on behalf of the many many people in San Francisco who are NOT douchenozzles like this fake San Franciscan who wasn't even born in this country who pay taxes, work hard and like America, that we understand this guy sucks all the balls ever. Bush Jr. sucks but America is still a great nation!

    Just please don't hate us all, because most people here are not nutjobs. If I see this jerk on the bus, trust me I'll tell him to take his BS and go back to Snooty Snotsville with it. HE SUCKS and DESERVES this blog!!! REAL native SF thanks you. And you right wingers need to shut up. Most of SF is more entrepreneur than you'll ever be! Google, Apple, HP and so on. Deal, ok! Welfare Sucks! So does the minority represented by Stephen Douchebag!!!!!
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  • 2/12/2009 12:22 AM Isaiah wrote:
    yeah i saw that show and taht dude was an arshole, im glad he's getting bad publicity!! He'll never change anything in the world because all he wants to do is feel better than some-one...
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  • 2/12/2009 12:29 AM gooneybird999 wrote:
    Seems to me the best way to get back at this puke is to do the exact opposite of what he wants us all to do. for presidents day weekend I suggest another "national carbon belch day" google it, they have a calculator and everything. I'm going to do 206 pounds per day over the long weekend. 4 times the average American.
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  • 2/12/2009 12:40 AM Mike wrote:
    FYI most foreign countries s t i l l have international schools for expats who don't want their kids in the local system.
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  • 2/12/2009 12:41 AM melyssa wrote:
    All I can say is that I am proud that my husbands serves this country and protects this mans freedom of speech.

    Your welcome Mr. Fowler.
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  • 2/12/2009 12:53 AM bishop101 wrote:
    "Bygone era"?...I live in Shanghai, and International schools are the norm for the children of most expats (I will be sending mine to local Chinese schools, as my company does not pay the 20k USD per year tuition), not to mention that I want my children to read and write (not just speak) Chinese. By the way "cantonese/mandarin" - two separate languages, so "cantonese, mandarin, and spanish..." - just thought I'd clear that up. 谢谢
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  • 2/12/2009 1:13 AM Jimbo wrote:
    Yahoo has decided to do an article on the worst husband of the year.

    http://tv.yahoo.com/blog/husbands-behaving-badly--120
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  • 2/12/2009 1:32 AM Heather wrote:
    I'm not exactly sure where to start, because I am torn between agreeing/not agreeing with your opinions. I am a college educated, mid-western, American loving, mother, wife and daughter. I love my country. I don't appreciate people moving to the United States to "better" themselves, or my country, only to berate and belittle it and the human beings who live there. I find Stephen Fowler to be closed minded and utterly disrespectful. On these subjects we agree. What I do not agree with, is your prejudicial opinions. I don't know if you even realize you were doing such. Not only am I: American, from the mid-west, college educated, and a wife, mother, and daughter, but I also live in Europe with my family. We live in an Expat community. My children literally go to an international school. My children interact on a daily bases with children from all over the world. As a result of living away from my country, I have come to a better understanding of the world, how the world views Americans, and how much I TRULY love my country. I am offended by the negative feelings evoked by your "international school" comment. Being around children from: Korea, China, Bangladesh, Japan, India, Tanzania, South Africa, Australia, and all over Europe has opened my children's eyes to all the possibilities, the views of others, and how we as brothers and sisters of the world are the same. We all have fears, opinions, etc. and it is with compassion and restraint that we should express them. Without judgment. So it is with sadness that I disagree with Stephen's lack of respect and lack of true world perspective, but I am also saddened by the judgment you have placed upon me, someone who doesn't even know me, my situation, or my reasoning. Someone whose reasons, unbeknownst to you, have driven by the desire to make decisions in which I feel have the best possible outcomes for my children and family. Please don't condemn me for placing my children in an international school. I have my reasons and I don't feel I need to explain them to anyone. I'm sorry I'm making this more about me, than about Stephen, but my point here is that in some sense you are no better than he. Condemning based on ignorance. It is with new eyes that I look at the world. There is so much hatred, why must we perpetuate. Stephen Fowler most likely never change his spots. We cannot do anything about this.
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  • 2/12/2009 1:46 AM DanDoo wrote:
    Fowler does not belong in our country, nor in any other civilized place. However, he has capitalized from our freedoms and opportunities and has attained success. All those "rednecks" and military people had build the country where he has thrived. The same country he hates. I'll say let's send him back. Let's get Fowler out of the USA. I'm not in Frisco but I'll like to be part of the action. Fowler must go! Email me at deepblueoceanandsky@gmail.com
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  • 2/12/2009 1:49 AM Franni wrote:
    STEPHEN FOWL-SMELLY-SHIT go back to where you belong. You don't belong in here. Why I you here, Retarded?
    GO TO HELL. Who do you think you are, PSYCHOPATH? WE LOVE AMERICA! WE LOVE OUR SOLDIERS! "You do not like our soldiers?" IF YOUR NOT WITH US, YOU'RE WITH THE TERRORIST.
    NOBODY HERE IN AMERICA LIKES YOU EXCEPT YOUR WIFE & KIDS. SHAME ON YOU BAD-MANNERED JERK! YOU'RE SICK! You're a CRACKBRAINED, SUPER STUPID, IDIOT, MORON. I'm hoping that someone will slap your mouth(bad breath)(pweh!), punch your face & kick you're ass one of this days. YOU ARE A GIRL HIDING ON THAT UGLY DEVILISH MAN's FACE. "Satan likes you very very very very much." I'm so sorry Ms. Gayla, just be strong. God bless you & your family. God Bless the USA!
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  • 2/12/2009 1:53 AM Bill Flowersq wrote:
    This site is a wonderful testament to the ease in which people can be and are influenced by the media. Once again, we have knee-jerk reactions to what we see on TV and don't even stop to think that there might be another side to the story.

    Well done, you have been fooled again.
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  • 2/12/2009 1:56 AM pala rezer wrote:
    TELL THE DAM FAMILY TO GET THE HELL OUT OF THIS COUNTRY AND SOMEONE NEEDS TO TEACH HIM A LESSON IN SHIT TALKING 101.AND OPEN A CAN OF WHIP ASS ON HIM.TELL HIS STUPID WIFE TO QUIT BEING A FOLLOWER OF A SENSELESS MAN WHO DONT HAVE A CLUE ABOUT BEING A AMERICAN.TELL HER GROW SOME BALLS AND LEAVE THE COUNTRY IF SHE DONT LIKE IT.I AM PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN.
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  • 2/12/2009 2:44 AM Doug Smith wrote:
    What do you expect from a left wing nut job with San Francisco values. Now we have them running the country, Obama, Pelosi, Reid, Frank, Dodd...........Look at California. It's a sewer. Their state government all have the same values and their stupidity have ran their government in the ground. They legislate against anything of Faith except Muslims, they deny people of Faith their rights while promoting the rights of gays and atheists. They ban our military from recruiting and picket recruiting stations. San Fran city officals say we do not need a military.

    Why so shocked? Send him to Carolina. We'll straighten this boy out.
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  • 2/12/2009 2:57 AM U.S. Soldier wrote:
    http://www.noevalleyvoice.com/2006/March/Tree.html

    u can run but you can't hide. this is one of my favorite shows. i live overseas so, i get the old episodes but when i visited the U.S. and stumbled across this @#$% head i was shocked to think that he is a tree hugger. this verifies his home e-mail if he ever dares to ever open it again and it also verifies his home address. i don't wish anything bad on him but i hope that he gets what he deserves. i proudly served in the military for 20 yrs and unfortunately, fighting for his freedom as well. Obama, revoke his citizenship! Freakin British Bastard is what he is! if you do your research and not much IQ is required, look his name and San Francisco, CA 94114 up. He didn't erase everything from the internet ~ i would drop him a line or two but he is not even worth a stamp. he owes Americans an apology and after this humiliation i hope his wife leaves his dumb ass. U.S. doesn't need your "help" so go move back where ever you come from you little weasel looking man!
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  • 2/12/2009 2:58 AM SFer wrote:
    I live in SF (as my IP address will show) and this is the first I'm hearing of this story. It has indeed been ignored by local media. I found it via Valleywag. I have not seen the show, but based on the descriptions I've read in the various blog posts, it sounds like we've got just a particularly vivid, flagrant and open embodiment of the characteristics commonly found not just in this city (that I love) but in NYC, LA, and in the humanities department of every college in America. This is what rich (and pseudo-rich) leftists are. That's just the way it is. And guess what, like it or not but the same sentiments (in deeply disguised form) exist in the present White House.

    Oh, and regarding the comment about SF public schools: you are absolutely right, they are far more diverse than the French-American School (as the neighbors refer to it), and are struggling, at this very moment, to retain their ROTC programs, in the face of pressure from people like Stephen Fowler to kill those programs. Our present mayor, unfortunately, shares more than a few political ideas with Fowler.

    The days of blue collar SF. Of the 1980s and the glory days of the 49ers are long, long over.
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  • 2/12/2009 3:02 AM Canadian wrote:
    Sick British bastard!
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  • 2/12/2009 3:16 AM jan wrote:
    Please note that French is (one of the) the official language(s) in our neighbouring country (Canada). It looks to me worthwhile to be able to communicate with your neighbours.
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  • 2/12/2009 4:21 AM James wrote:
    Typical LIBERAL SOCIALIST ELITIST! All the signs...I'm better than you....your too stupid to know anything...this guys is further left than Chi Rivera and Nancy Pelosi. I wonder if he is an eco-terrorist? Better keep an eye on him and take away his matches...little boys should not play with them! What a punk!
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  • 2/12/2009 4:21 AM Sam wrote:
    Dude,
    International schools are hardly from a bygone era. There are international schools all over the world for exactly the kind of people you describe. There are probably thousands and thousands of them, including the French one this guy sends his kids to. Also, the quality of education at this school IS probably better than the quality at most San Fran public schools.
    Sorry, dude, rich people can afford to treat their kids better. Live with it.
    Sam
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  • 2/12/2009 4:32 AM Cyiacup wrote:
    I think Stephen needs to think about how he would feel if someone spoke to his wife in that manner. He needs to be thankful that he didn't get a "redneck" a** kicking. It's a shame when people think they can look down there noses at another person. Stephen think about this one comment "The same people you see going up are the same people you will see coming down" and you will eventually come down. Maybe you need to take some time and look @ your own self before passing judgment on others. You are by no means perfect the only person that is perfect in this world is the lord, and the last time I checked he doesn't live on this earth. You need to sit down, read your bible, and pray. Ask the lord to forgive you for your ways because when the time comes for you to meet your maker what will you say about your life, because believe me he will know if your lying.
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  • 2/12/2009 4:50 AM jon wrote:
    I think your a punk. There is a reason England is so close to France.
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  • 2/12/2009 4:54 AM Susie wrote:
    I saw the show and thought this man was ruthless and rude. Here is my question..if he and his wife are so wealthy, why did they do this show? It is my understanding that people get paid to go on this show..hmmm
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  • 2/12/2009 4:55 AM jerry wrote:
    I think it's time to deport this sob, draft dodging coward. His kid's to, they belong in england... I thought we kicked his kind out a long time ago.
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  • 2/12/2009 4:59 AM Dottie wrote:
    I think that this man is the nastiest person that I have encountered. I hope he rots in H@ll, along with the rest of his probably illegal gains and actually all he has is lost. What an egotistical rotten person, how could he degrade someone the way he did.
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  • 2/12/2009 5:03 AM C wrote:
    Some people have already pointed out your confusion of multilingual education and attending a diverse school, so I won't explain it again.

    But I would just like to say that families wouldn't HAVE to shell out thousands of dollars a year to send their kids to a bilingual school if voters in States like California and Massachusetts would educate themselves on the value of bilingual education for children and society and recognize that ENGLISH IS NOT THE OFFICIAL LANGUAGE OF THE UNITED STATES. Then we could reinstate public funding of these fantastic schools that offer our children the opportunity to learn a valuable skill.

    C
    BA Psych
    MA Applied Linguistics
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  • 2/12/2009 5:06 AM Kenny T wrote:
    In the case of Stephen Fowler, it is such a pity that public floggings or stoning have been outlawed.
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  • 2/12/2009 5:13 AM JK wrote:
    Has anyone sent their kids to a school that is run for the military kids. We have kids that are born all over the world and have parents from all over the world. These kids are taught languages just to survive. I am very proud of my life and that5 my kids get to go to school.
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  • 2/12/2009 5:28 AM Estela wrote:
    Hello. I do not know this guy. I only know that you should not give any fame to a person like this that does not deserve it. He is only a Women abuser and what he deserves is jail. Dont give him the reward of been famous, let that to people who really have that right.
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  • 2/12/2009 5:41 AM bostonbelle wrote:
    The Fowlers believe that biased editing was the reason that Mr Fowler came across as a villain. Well, lets say the show included some of his more 'tender' moments. No amount of 'positive' footage could downplay his outlandish behavior and disgusting comments.
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  • 2/12/2009 5:44 AM CarrieSmith wrote:
    Everyone acts so shocked about this mans attatude..look where he is from. Liberals are mean by nature 'MY WAY or the highway."
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  • 2/12/2009 6:01 AM nancy wrote:
    i think mr fowler has something in his background that he's ashamed of. a poor relative, poor parents, poor upbringing......
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  • 2/12/2009 6:02 AM Pat wrote:
    Ok, I will admit that I do not watch reality TV and only heard of this fellow through an article I read.

    So I probably am not qualified to post, but I did want to say that we are so far behind educationally in the United States that it isn't funny. I don't really think the Fowlers are doing anything wrong if they can afford to send their children to an excellent school where they can learn a second language. Every American child should be taught a second language beginning in the 1st grade.
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  • 2/12/2009 6:03 AM tarsh wrote:
    MY GOSH...IM FROM NZ MOST PROBABLY WONT SEE THIS EPISODE FOR A FEW MONTHS YET BUT THAT FOWLER IDIOT SOUNDS DOWN RIGHT NASTY...THE WIFE MUST BE A REAL DUMB ASS LIKE HIM....POOR CHILDREN (WAT A HEAD FUK LIFE FOR THEM)...AFTER THIS AND WHAT IVE READ IT WONT BE LONG BEFORE THEIR INCOME TAKES A DIVE....
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    1. 2/12/2009 1:19 PM LAWL wrote:
      My IQ dropped by 20 reading your caps. Please gtfo.
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      1. 2/20/2009 12:01 PM Nathan wrote:
        dude if your IQ dropped because you read the caps lock on the pervious message...your either in trouble or its so low its not going to go down much more
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  • 2/12/2009 6:04 AM ChrisV wrote:
    I applaud Mr. Fowler for speaking his mind. That middle American mother was a joke of a person and she needed to hear everything that was told to her. Her kids are on a short road to wifebeaters and fatigue patterned clothing. I have dealt with those who choose to have fun their entire lives and they usually are the lazy poor that expect you to help when no effort has been made to better their lives on their part ever. I too have been at my wits end dealing with these people that like fun. Let us all play games and have fun. No wonder she is fat and pathetic, and agrees to the skirt work term her husband has keyed for her. Her house looked a uneducated mess. She is a stupid redneck, everyone agrees they are just following the majority against the Brit. His children will grow up and stay great Americans and will help this county continue to be the great country that it is. Her children hopefully will not have families that end up on welfare. We have enough fun lovers that are already milking the system.
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  • 2/12/2009 6:13 AM mike wrote:
    Go worship your in-bred royal family!
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  • 2/12/2009 6:35 AM Derek wrote:
    Hello,

    As a fellow Marine in the United State Armed Forces I am greatly heart broke by the man. I am not going to mention the bones that I would just love to break but the thought of young men who died to give this jack ass the right to even be on TV. I am not a rich man, I don't have a 140 IQ. But what I have done, Is more for this country in my right pinky then you will ever do with your IQ. Screw you dude. O my gosh did I say "dude". I most be an idiot. All I can say is I would love to meet you. Take it for what it's worth you maggot.
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    1. 2/12/2009 1:18 PM LAWL wrote:
      Again impersonation of being in the Armed Forces. You sicken me young sir. You sicken.
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  • 2/12/2009 6:41 AM Roland Hulme wrote:
    Stephen Fowler was CLEARLY a snobbish, arrogant idiot, ranting to compensate for his own insecurities. How he treated Gayla was totally indefensible and disgusting. He's an embarrassment to men everywhere.

    HOWEVER, I take exception to the whole idea of 'learning French is useless.'

    I am British, married to an American and we have a beautiful baby boy together. As he grows up, we'll encourage him to learn French. Why? Because his grandparents live in France and we intend to visit often.

    It's all very well for President Obama to go in front of thousands of hispanics and tell them not to worry about learning English - it's up to American kids to learn Spanish - but that's not true and it's not fair.

    America is an English speaking nation and if we want our children to learn another language, it's up to them what they want to learn.

    There are millions of Chinese immigrants in America. Should their parent's wish to teach them Cantonese or Mandarin be scoffed at as 'useless', like the author of this blog does?

    I have secnd-generation Russian friends, whose parents teach them their mother tongue.

    America is a cultural melting pot and there are hundreds of different languages kids might want to learn to better equate themselves with their cultural heritage and family history. In my case - possibly in the case of Fowler and his family - it's French.

    By dismissing learning French as 'useless' the author of this blog is demonstrating the same arrogance, snobbishness and rudeness that Stephen Fowler was guilty of.
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  • 2/12/2009 6:49 AM Voice of Reason wrote:
    People of who are outraged, offended, or any of the kind. You shall be taught upon your undoings. This ignorance has traveled beyond reasonable acknowledgment of what is to be considered sane. Thou shall pray for your redemption. Heaven have mercy. Await the Voice of Reason to understand what mere moralities you base your rage and anger upon. Unforgivable sins of humanity...
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  • 2/12/2009 6:52 AM Paul wrote:
    Stephen Fowler's IQ is not 158. He did not demonstrate any indication of such supremely advanced intelligence. There is no doubt in my mind that he is between 128 and 140. However, this calls into mind what defines true intelligence? Ninety-five percent of Americans would have known better than to behave like Fowler in front of any video camera, let alone on national television. His words showed such a profound lack of insight into the consequences of his behavior, I am led to the conclusion that Fowler must suffer from a mental disorder or personality disorder. I agree that his wife should continue to encourage him to get help: I think we should encourage his wife to get help, as well.
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  • 2/12/2009 7:11 AM jim wrote:
    Hey Stephan, get out of our country, go back to France or what ever yellow belly country your from, you are a useless piece of human trash and a waste of gods good air.
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  • 2/12/2009 7:17 AM UNEEDURAZZBEAT wrote:
    I hope the wife's business goes in the dumper and he gets shit canned by his company for showing a COMPLETE LACK of judgement (not to mention decorum). What a rude little limey prick. He would have NEVER spoke to a man that way because he KNOWS he'd get his ASS BEAT like a little girl. Maybe a few phone calls/emails to TerraNova Bioenergy will help speed up the process


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  • 2/12/2009 7:48 AM Richard wrote:
    Comments on Mr. Fowler are likely appropriate from many sources. The basis of the wife swap show, like other reality shows, is to make profit for the producers at the detriment of the society. Media airing of improper behavior does not help those, or help any of us, correct or protect the innocent from the wrongs done privately or publicly. The potential is these airings are to create a classroom for those prone to use others for there own abusive self-pleasured gain.

    The foundations of family relationships, developed privately and intimately over many years of trial and effort are put on public display in a staged TV environment. In TV free forums, where the worst of good and bad human behavior can result, the worst behavior gains the most viewers and producers' profits.

    Those 'Mr. Fowlers' are grossly numerous in society. Using the media to teach more potential 'Mr. Fowlers' is morally criminal.

    Letting the few profit (personally and/or financially) which results in physical or mental abuse by those abusers has no basis of social morals.

    I was a physically/mentality abused child in a family physically/mentally abused by a 'serial bully' father/husband. Victims like my family are innumerible in this world. Training to create another bully through the media is nauseating to me.
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  • 2/12/2009 7:54 AM Bxgirl wrote:
    Who cares how diverse the school is? Enough w/this diversity crap already.
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    1. 2/14/2009 12:37 AM Katritin wrote:
      I agree. Enough! I am a black person and believe so called "diversity" has done a lot of damage to black folks. We are a pale version of our strong ancestors. Besides this "diversity" thing is a load of crock dreamed up by folks who want to off load the guilt of their prejudice. True diversity has nothing to do with a bunch of people from different backgrounds who just happen to be in the same place but don't really interact with each other, and go their separate ways at the end of the day. When folks start treating each other with dignity, respect and acknowledging the value of human beings, just for the sake of being human, then we can begin to value diversity. Until then, I want none of it. For those who do not agree and think they value diversity and are participating in it, think honestly about all the people of different races, ethnicities, cultures, gender, sexual orientation, etc. that you truly know; that you have over to your house and have honest conversations with; that you break bread with; share family stories, etc., then we can begin to talk about true diversity.
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  • 2/12/2009 9:16 AM John McRae wrote:
    I am familiar with this particular school. I am a career secondary level English/ESL teacher, and several years ago I interviewed for a position at this school. It was founded by a group of French ex-patriots who had come to the Bay Area to work in Silicon Valley. They want to have their children maintain their language and culture while they assimilate the American language/culture. The parents that I met were nothing like those that appeared on the Wife Swap episode in question.
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  • 2/12/2009 2:52 PM letitgo wrote:
    Fowler's behavior was reprehensible.

    But you know what's just as sad? The many posts here which are filled with anti-French, anti-British, anti-Muslim, anti-intellectual, and other forms of racism and ignorance. You people who are countering Fowler's hatred with hatred are embarrassing yourselves and Americans as a whole. All the badly spelled posts threatening violence against this man (jerk though he may be), and all the people claiming that he is a "typical Liberal," "typical San Franciscan," "typical [fill in the blank]" are ironically proving him RIGHT. You're showing yourselves to be exactly the over-generalizing, ignorant, violent, prejudiced rednecks he believes you to be. Why not prove him wrong instead, by turning the other cheek (countering rudeness with class), or countering his ignorance with a well-reasoned, logical argument?

    Or did he hit a nerve?
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  • 2/12/2009 3:39 PM allan wrote:
    As an Englishman I take exception to the labeling of English people based on the antics of men like Stephen Fowler. I have livid in this country for 39 years and am very proud to be English and American. I support this country 100%, I served in the British Army for seven years and consider myself to be classless. Unfortunately Mr. Fowler has demonstrated a level of behavior that seems to be more and more prevalent in society. Mr. fowler moved to this country by choice and has exploited his opportunity and shown a very bad example of English men. I would ask the general public to not label all Englishmen on the antics of Mr Fowler, it is very obvious that he has no breeding, common sense, courtesy or respect for anyone.Mr. fowler my value education and maybe has a University degree but he is obviously not intelligent. This being said we should feel sorry for him for being so deficient as a human being "real men" treat ladies with respect no matter their what their economic status is. Allan.
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  • 2/12/2009 3:51 PM Allan wrote:
    Josephine, Service in the British military system in voluntary andhas been since 1962.
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  • 2/12/2009 6:16 PM JC wrote:
    Well now the shirts are all fixed to regulations and New and improved if you ask me.

    Get yours here:
    http://www.cafepress.com/cp/members/products/product_edit_design.aspx?itemno=354916114&side=F
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  • 2/12/2009 9:40 PM jacques wrote:
    totally untrue. My daughter goes to the French American and it is one of the best schools in the country. She is now tri-lingual courtesy of: THE SCHOOL. she will know four languages by the end of her senior year there. please do not misinform the public on matters this big. but the things Stephen Fowler said were still unacceptable and rude.
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  • 2/13/2009 6:05 PM chutim wrote:
    Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth! I am so proud of everyone who posted on this website and have come to right a great wrong. Gayla Long and family represent all the people who are the backbone of this great nation of ours. They may not be the richest, or best educated, but they are humble, hard working and honest, and would be first in line to help a fellow American in need, or voluteer to go to war to defend this great nation of ours. I'd take one long family over a dozen Fowlers any day of the week. I cried many tears of American pride to see my fellow countryman defend Gayla's honor! God Bless you all, and God bless the USA. And also god bless all of all of Stephan Fowlers fellow countrymen for disowning him as well!
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  • 2/13/2009 9:30 PM Stevie wrote:
    As a) a briton b) a san francisco resident and c) an attendee of Mission High School, a public inner city school which is something like 60% african american - i completely agree with the point that you can pick up at least three languages if you make the effort in any school in san francisco. i am ashamed and dismayed at this man's behaviour, and would like to say he's not a "typical san franciscan" but merely a "typical elitist scumbag with too many degrees". please don't judge the british in this way - we are a country of 60 000 000 people and this is just one guy that's ruining it for the rest of us. myself, holding both american and british passports, consider both countries my home and have complete love and respect for them. if and when i join the military it could be for either country. don't join fowler in prejudice.
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  • 2/13/2009 11:21 PM Mint wrote:
    The school actually provides the opportunity to learn up to 5 languages: English, French, Mandarin/Spanish/Italian, Latin and German. I was a student at the same school and learned more than two languages, they're just not old enough to start the transition into learning multiple languages.
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  • 2/14/2009 12:26 PM Michelle wrote:
    I feel you did not look far enough into the school's back round and teaching ideas. beginning in pre-kindergarden the children at their school undergo a very rigorus french education they have mostly french classes until third grade when they start dividing time up half and half between english and french. by around fifth grade the children are bilingual if the only other language they know is english, but many know other languages. My son has a friend who is fluent in portugese, another friend who is fluent in korean, and many people in his grade are fluent in mandarin and spanish. In middle school they become fluent in another language: Italian, Spanish, Mandarin, or German. if they choose to continue to high school they can choose to begin studying another language. Please check all of your information before you post it. Middle schoolers are required to take latin for one year and are allowed to take latin for another year if they want to.

    What stephen fowler said does not portray the school's beliefs. Do not hold the school accountable for the very rude things he said.
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  • 2/16/2009 9:55 AM Matt Illett wrote:
    International schools are certainly not of a by gone era and are still thriving. They provide a fantastic opportunity for ex-pats who move often (and would thus impede their childrens education if they were thrown into a local school every year or so to learn yet another new language). In addition those who want their children to be raised within a more cultured, nurturing and multi lingual school often find it a better alternative to the (unfortunately) severly underfunded, gang infested public schools. I have yet to come across a product of the public system who is bi lingual + due to their exposure at school.
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  • 2/16/2009 11:04 AM mom123 wrote:
    just FYI, there are 19 language immersion programs in SF's public schools. A choice of Cantonese, Mandarin, Korean, Spanish. And a Japanese bi-lingual program. Alas, no French.
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  • 2/18/2009 8:24 AM Amy wrote:
    Others have clarified this but I grew up in SF, so I want to also. The public schools here are in really bad shape, which is why a lot of families try to get their kids into private schools. It's terrible actually, California ranks really low in education compared to the national average. So, because of wealthier families sending kids to private schools, this has resulted in very homogenized private school communities.

    But the point w/respect to how languages are taught needs to be a little more true-to-fact. The bi-lingual school Renee is talking about is probably French American International School. It teaches kids all the standard subjects in both languages -- it truly is bi-lingual ed. This is different from other schools which offer foreign language as an additional subject but it isn't integrated into the whole curriculum. For example, at French American, kids might be taught math in French. The public schools in SF are NOT bi-lingual, with a couple of exceptions. Horace Mann Middle School is one of them -- it offers its curriculum in Spanish because over 60% of the students come from Spanish-speaking families and it's more important to get the kids caught up in math, science, and history than to force them to learn in a non-native language. But it has been controversial because some think the kids will lag in English (personally I think it's wonderful, having taught there for one year myself).

    The reason that understanding this point is important is that the students from places like French American will leave the school with an amazing knowledge of French, able to say things like "decimal point" and "cell nucleus"--TRULY bilingual. Kids from schools where they simply learn French, Spanish, Mandarin, or German as a separate elective subject (most common 4 taught) are never immersed in the language and typically forget a lot of it over time. So like other commenters said, I think that bi-lingual ed should not be given a bad name just because these people are affiliated with the school. I'm sure the school administrators and other students and faculty can't be that pleased either....oh and I'm not positive that it is French American but it's a pretty good guess.
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  • 2/19/2009 8:07 AM Judi wrote:
    This is about the most OBVIOUS case of a "LITTLE MANS COMPLEX" that I have ever seen. This guy is of jockey stature (which would be fine if he had the spirit and courage of a jockey, but, he is a coward)and it is apparent to me that he feels insecure about ALL his small body parts.
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  • 2/19/2009 12:08 PM Suzanne wrote:
    Point of clarification. International schools are still in existence and very useful to expat children (it's very hard to be moved all around the world and still be on a K-12 system). While everything else you said was correct, international schools are not from a bygone era, and are in fact, extremely useful!
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  • 2/20/2009 9:28 AM Shirley wrote:
    He didn't just speak his mind in his own house. He was on television. I'm glad there are others out there that are just as enraged as I am about this guy.
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    1. 2/20/2009 11:56 AM Nathan wrote:
      Yeah what he said was very uncalled for. not just on T.V. but what he's probably been telling his children to think and believe. he shouldn't beable to have his child since he is teaching them to think a way that they will be getting their @$$ kicked at school and on the walk home from the bus stop
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  • 2/20/2009 11:47 AM Nathan wrote:
    Hey this guy is really messed up. He insults certain people that share similar characteristics with him. I hope that his children don't turn out just like him and i hope everything is okay with the family that he didn't just insult them, but there very lifestyale and those that have the same interest
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  • 2/20/2009 6:50 PM Jooles wrote:
    What an total IDIOT Fowler is. A typical English fart who THINKS he is above others and gets his kicks from demoralizing women and degrades those who he lives amongst each and every day. He is arrogant, and ignorant.
    I'm British, proudly married to an American MAN - something that Fowler is not, or could even hope to be. He is a total embarrassment to all Brits who live here in the USA. He needs to take a hard look at himself in the mirror before he goes around and criticizes others. What a Moron.
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  • 2/20/2009 7:15 PM Jooles wrote:
    One more thing...Fowler needs to pack his bags and leave the USA...for good.. or have someone else pack them for him. He is obnoxious and nasty mouthed and his behavior is unacceptable. What goes around, comes around and Fowler will one day reap what he sowed. He deserves every measure of misery coming. God Bless America!
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  • 2/20/2009 8:47 PM Kathy wrote:
    Please don't refer to this man as "upper class"....just because he may promote himself this way, probably because of his accent, does not make him "upper class" by any means. Now the Queen is "upper class"...and she would sooner chop her own head off than insult a guest in her home or anywhere else for that matter. Class is not determined by how much money you have in the bank or what job you have, not in the UK anyway, it's determined by your blood line. In the UK this kind of behaviour is met with disdain and disgust and certainly would not lead others to believe you are "upper class".
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  • 2/20/2009 9:55 PM monica wrote:
    The school that the kids go to is very academic and very good. There is nothing wrong with sending them there. The public schools in San Francisco are not very good. It is one of the reasons i chose to move out of the area. The only real problem with him is that he thinks he is better than most people and his poor kids don't get to enjoy life like normal kids.
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  • 2/20/2009 11:24 PM Parlez Vous wrote:
    There is nothing wrong with attending a private school, if anything it gives you an advantage in this game of life. The SF International school is an excellent school, superior to any SF public school. As a San Franciscan, I enjoy and relish the different peoples and cultures we are exposed to here. So many people striving for a better life and way of living that when you see the Budweiser crowd you wonder why so many Americans with the educational opportunities presented to them, and the freedom to be what you want to be, decide to be nothing more than fat, chain smoking, fast food eating slobs, that go to church every Sunday hoping to be redeemed. Get a clue, get a life, get off the fast food, increase your IQ and help build a better country.
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  • 2/23/2009 11:52 AM Matthew wrote:
    His kids are going to the kind of school
    where they will snort coke before the smoke dope.
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  • 3/9/2009 8:32 PM Andre wrote:
    I have a take on why he sends his clones to that expensive international school. Let's take a look at the racial composition of that school vs. the public school. Would it be to hard to say that in my opinion he sends them to an expensive private school so that non-Caucasians won't be around his precious clones? I guess the education he's teaching them is house work is for those of darker hue to perform as well since none of those two snobbish elitists seem to know how to do such.

    The woman shouldn't be ignored as well since she doesn't have much interaction with her own children. What kind of a mother is "grumpy" with her children when they interfere with her narcissistic lifestyle? Obviously it's too late to stuff them both back up in her. How about foster care so Mr. and Mrs. Fowler can concentrate on who really matters to them, the reflection in the mirror. The both of them are a pair made for eachother, sanctimonious to the core prattling to each other it would seem how better they are to everyone else but always reminding themselves they believe in equality. It's one thing to say you do on that note it's another thing to practice it and they obviously don't practice what they preach. Good show, jolly good, pip pip and all.
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